Guardianship and guardianship

The purpose of the meeting was designated by the head of the guardianship and trusteeship sector of the education department of the administration of the Kstovsky municipal district Lyubov Golovkina:“Once a year we all get together. First of all, we familiarize parents with the changes in the legislation of the Russian Federation on certain issues of the implementation of guardianship and trusteeship in relation to minors. We are discussing pressing issues and problems that have matured throughout the year. Also, our guardians can personally communicate with the leadership of the district, with representatives of social protection of the population, with employees of the Central District Hospital, with police officers. Foster parents can get counseling and ask about their concerns. " She also noted that during the current year there have been no major changes in the legislation: “The authorities of all levels are willing to meet guardians, foster parents, everything is being done to ensure that children live in a family. For example, we have simplified the reports of trustees, now it will be much easier for them. There are minor changes in the documents for the transfer of children to the family. For example, before adopting a child, all guardians must undergo training at the “School for Foster Parents”. In our district, the School has been operating since 2012; almost 200 families have already studied there. The result of the training is on the face: over the past 2 years we have had a return and there have been no abandonments of children ”. Head of the district administration Kirill Kultin greeted the audience: “Good afternoon, dear guardians and trustees! First of all, guardianship is a huge responsibility for a person who cannot yet defend his rights and interests on his own. On behalf of the administration, I assure you that we will try to respond promptly and with maximum results to all your appeals that are within the competence of LSG bodies. The state does not ignore the institution of guardianship, but the most important thing is your warmth and care. Thank you so much for your kind heart! " The head of the guardianship sector, Lyubov Golovkina, also informed the parents that today in the Kstovsky municipal district there are 272 registered children who have the status of an orphan or a child left without parental care. Of these, 98 children are brought up in foster families, 174 children are under guardianship and guardianship. There are 157 guardians and trustees in total. In her newsletter, she also touched upon issues social support orphans and children left without parental care; providing them with living quarters and participating in the regional program for the repair of living quarters for orphans, benefits for housing payments, payment of alimony, etc. The meeting was attended by guardians, trustees and foster parents of the Kstovsky district, as well as employees of the guardianship and trusteeship sector of the education department of the administration Kstovsky municipal district, representatives of social security, regional hospital, police. Specialists from different departments informed the meeting participants about social payments foster children under guardianship and wards, on the results of the clinical examination of the guardianship children, on juvenile delinquency, on the prevention of addictive behavior in children and adolescents. The speakers answered all the questions that worried guardians, trustees and foster parents. After the meeting ends, the adoptive parent Olga Puzyreva shared her impressions and told about her family: “Such meetings are very useful. We must keep abreast of changes in laws, innovations in other areas of life. We must keep pace with the times, because we are responsible for the life and health of children who have been accepted into their families. Now, I believe, we have a complete family: 2 older already grown sons and 2 adopted daughters. My husband and I always wanted daughters. Eight years ago we had Masha, and six months ago - Katya. Thanks to the guardianship authorities for their support and assistance. We are all very happy! I am a happy woman! "

Educational process there is a constantly ongoing process, and its individual details are resolved in the general tone of the family, and the general tone cannot be invented and artificially maintained. General tone Dear Parents created by your own life and your own behavior. The most correct, reasonable, thoughtful pedagogical methods will not do any good if the general tone of your life is bad. Conversely, only the right general tone will tell you the right methods of dealing with the child, and above all correct forms discipline, labor, freedom, play and ... authority.
A.S. Makarenko

It is very important for adults to monitor the lifestyle your family leads, what emotional background prevails in it. It may turn out that the parents lead healthy image life, the apartment is in perfect order, material prosperity, but it blows cold, the child feels uncomfortable, considers himself superfluous.

Upbringing is not only the purposeful and systematic formation of certain personality traits in a child, but also the direct, unconscious assimilation by him, through copying, imitation, of life values, attitudes, ways of behavior that educate people.

There are no trifles in upbringing, every action is important and has its own consequences. Making any action in relation to the pupil, it is necessary to predict further consequences. The child's psyche is very vulnerable and vulnerable. It is in childhood that the most vivid and unforgettable impressions arise. If the child knows that you are a step parent, then you need to communicate with him very delicately, because what is forgiven to a loved one, do not forgive a stranger.

The main task is to create conditions of psychological comfort in the family not only for the pupil, but maybe it will sound unusual, first of all for oneself. Where parents are happy, children are happy.

Carrying out form: conversation.

Meeting objectives:

• Help parents understand the need to create and maintain warm family relations.
• Promote the acquisition of practical knowledge by parents to create a favorable psychological atmosphere in the family.

Issues for discussion:

• The role of family relationships in development emotional sphere child.
• The value of the emotional and sensory sphere for the formation of a full-fledged personality.

Course of the lesson

Good afternoon, dear parents. Today the topic of our conversation is "The warmth of family relations." When a child appears in a family, spouses become more than just husband and wife, they become parents. You should be perfectly aware that a child needs not only care and support, but also love. Practice shows that not even the most ideal Orphanage cannot adequately replace the child's parents. An experiment was conducted in Hungary. The girls of the orphanage were settled in a beautiful mansion, in the middle of a large garden. Every day classes and games were held with them. After some time, they began to quarrel, fight. Shoots began. Best conditions for development and upbringing can only be created in the family, provided that the child is accepted as he is and loved. Unfortunately, not every adult, having given birth to a child, becomes a real parent, understands why he needs him, what value he represents. This is evidenced by statistics. 90% of inmates of orphanages are not orphans, but children who have parents who have exchanged them for vodka and a wild life.

Parental home the beginning of time. The child's life begins from the threshold of the parental home. In the first years of life, behavioral models, character foundations, and a scenario for the future are laid. And sometimes children see in the family not what a child should see and hear. Therefore, it will take a lot of time, effort, patience, in order to reorient the child to the desired behavior.

Upbringing is not only the purposeful and systematic formation of certain personality traits in a child, but also the direct, unconscious assimilation by him, through copying, imitation, of life values, attitudes, ways of behavior that educate people. For example, a boy grew up in one of the families. WITH early age he copied the behavior of his father, and the father was drinking man... As a result, at the age of 13, the son began to try alcohol, and at 20 he was treated in a clinic for alcoholism. (Example from work practice)

Therefore, it is very important for adults to monitor the lifestyle your family leads, what emotional background prevails in it. It may turn out that the parents lead a healthy lifestyle, the apartment is in perfect order, material prosperity, but it blows cold, the child feels uncomfortable, considers himself superfluous.

What prevails in your relationship is optimism or pessimism, ill will or cordiality, how often you hear laughter in your family. There are no trifles in upbringing, every action is important and has its own consequences. When taking any action in relation to a child (foster child, if you are a foster parent or guardian), it is necessary to predict further consequences. The child's psyche is very vulnerable and vulnerable. It is in childhood that the most vivid and unforgettable impressions arise. If the child knows that you are a step parent, then you need to communicate with him very delicately, because what is forgiven to a loved one is not forgiven to a stranger.

Your task is to create conditions of psychological comfort in the family not only for the pupil, but maybe it will sound unusual, first of all for yourself. Where parents are happy, children are happy.

The family should be dominated by a benevolent tone, mutual understanding, respect for each other, love. The Italian writer Gianni Rodari has a short story where adults ask a little girl: "Who is the boss in your house?" And the girl replies that no one commands anyone at home, but everyone loves each other. Being in such conditions, the child will unconsciously absorb it. If a child sees that dad and mom take care of each other, their relationship is filled with tenderness and love, then gradually he begins to perceive this as the norm of human relations. Naturally, it will be easier to communicate with such a child.

But how to achieve this. The child is the mirror of the family. What kind of people you will become and your pupils. You need to start with yourself, with work on your spiritual world. Working on the program additional education“Family: morality, culture, health” with high school students, discussing topics related to the psychology of upbringing, talking about the fact that there are families where people love each other, they don’t change, that the husband comes home sober, they don’t believe, because ... v real life often see the exact opposite. It is difficult to convince them, and in fact adults are responsible for all this.

Walks, excursions, games with children, hobbies, handicrafts, teach him everything that you can do yourself. Be sure to find time to get together, at least for dinner, such communication brings you closer, gives a feeling of family unity. All adults were once children, but many for some reason forget about it. It is sometimes important for adults to remember that they were children, because in order to understand a child, you need to be able to look at the world through his eyes.

While raising our children, we not only instill in them moral qualities, but we must prepare them for an independent life. Therefore, it is important to form good habits, the ability to solve everyday problems (perform household duties, clean the room, work in the country, go to the store, pay for utilities).

We must remember that, paradoxically, a child needs our love exactly when he least deserves it.

I would like to end our conversation with the words of VG Belinsky "Education is a great thing - it decides the fate of a person."

Rituals to be followed in the family:

Before leaving for school, get a hug from your parents and a parting word or gesture in which there will be a little secret of an adult and a child;

Coming from school, tell about your successes and problems and get words of support and participation over a cup of tea;

At night hear good wishes;

On a day off, discuss the past week and its meaning for children and parents;

Together with mom, cook for the holiday and bake beautiful cake, and just have a heart-to-heart talk with dad.

Parent-teacher meeting guardians and trustees.

On April 9, 2014, a parents' meeting of guardians and trustees was held on the topic: "Our children!"

The following issues were considered:

1. Further training and employment of school graduates. On this issue, the deputy. Valentina Aleksandrovna Kalyakina, head of the career guidance and vocational training department. She explained in detail to parents how to arrange further education and employment of school graduates, what payments the children left without parental care will receive, how to get them and what documents will be required for this.

2. Summer vacation of foster children and foster children. The inspector of the guardianship authorities, Elena Viktorovna Andreeva, spoke on this issue. She explained to the parents how to properly arrange the rest of the children, which recreation camps will accept the children, in which shifts. Parents had the opportunity to immediately write an application for the rest of their children in a country holiday camp.

3. Organizational issues. The meeting was chaired by the inspector for children's rights of the boarding school Balabanova Olga Vladimirovna. Questions were raised about outward appearance students, student attendance. One of the main questions was the question of the interaction between the family and the school.

The result of the meeting was the parents' interest in the issues discussed.

School-wide parent meeting.

On February 15, 2014, on the basis of the school-wide work plan, within the framework of the month of civil education, parent meetings were held at the school for parents of 1-4 grades on the topic "Raising children without violence", and for parents of 5-10 grades "The role of the family in forming a child legal awareness and responsibility ”.

School-wide plan parent meeting for grades 5-10"The role of the family in the formation of a child's sense of justice and responsibility."

Target: to acquaint with the normative documents governing the responsibilities of parents in raising the child's sense of justice and responsibility, to discuss the role of the family in their formation.

Carrying out plan:

1. School director T.N. Gorelaya "Statistics of juvenile delinquency in the Vladimir region."

2. Social teacher Kruglova I.A .: "Regulatory framework,regulating the responsibilities of parents for education and trainingminors:Federal Law No. 120, Federal Law of the Russian Federation of February 23, 2013 N 15-FZ "On protecting the health of citizens from the effects of second hand tobacco smoke and the consequences of tobacco consumption", Code of Administrative Offenses of the Russian Federation "On obscene language in public places".

3. The results of school-wide actions "Courtesy Day", "Day without a mat".

4. Viewing a video clip of the TV program "For Minors".

5. Discussion of the watched video.

6. Final part: handing out handouts for parents.

Parent-teacher plan primary school on the topic: "Raising children without violence"

Goal and tasks:

1. To acquaint with the normative documents regulating the responsibilities of parents for education and trainingminorsand responsibility for their failure.

2. To promote the formation among parents of ideas about true parental authority and the actualization of the need for its manifestation in relations with children.

3. Discuss with the parents the problem of encouraging and punishing the child in the family,to form a culture of encouragement and punishment in the family among parents.

4. Discussways, means and methods of building non-violentrelationships with children in the family.

Carrying out plan.

1. Introductory speech by Oparina I.V., presentation of the topic, goals of the meeting.

2. IV Oparina's speech: "Relationships in the family."

3. Discussion with parents of life situations on the topic of the meeting.

4. View a video on the topic of the meeting.

5. Speech by S.N. Moiseeva: “ Regulations regulating the responsibilities of parents for education and trainingminorsand responsibility for their failure ":

Constitution Russian Federation

Convention on the rights of the child

Family code

The Law of the Russian Federation "On the Foundations of the System for the Prevention of Neglect and Juvenile Delinquency

Criminal Code of the Russian Federation

Article 156. Failure to fulfill the duties of raising a minor

Code of the Russian Federation on Administrative Offenses of December 30, 2001 No. 195-FZ

Article 5.35 Failure by parents or other legal representatives of minors to fulfill their responsibilities for the maintenance and upbringing of minors.

6. Discussion of the results of the questionnaire survey of students on the topic: "Relationships in the family."

7. Watching the video: "Take care of your children!"

8. Notes for parents.

Parent-teacher meeting

guardians, trustees and foster families.

18 December year 2013 was heldparent meeting of guardians, trustees and foster families.

On March 30, 2016, a meeting of guardians (trustees), foster parents on the topic: "Protection of the rights and interests of minors brought up in foster families" was held in the assembly hall of the MKU "Mikhailovsky Center of Culture", which was organized by the guardianship and guardianship department of the administration of the city Mikhailovka. The meeting was attended by 131 substitute parents, specialists from interested departments and organizations.

The meeting was opened by Elena Nikolaevna Zakuraeva, Deputy Head of the City District Administration for Social Development. She thanked those present for their hard work, for the love, attention and care that they give to orphans and children left without parental care. In his speech, the head of the department for guardianship and guardianship of the administration of the city district Tymoshenko E.A. drew the attention of those present to the problems of social orphanhood in the city district, cruelty to children, and the revealed facts of violation of the sexual inviolability of children.

Deputy Director for Teaching and Educational Work of the State Educational Institution of Education for Orphans and Children Left Without Parental Care "Mikhailovsky Orphanage", Head of Foster Parents Service Akimova I.Yu. .N., Educator Semenova N.G.) introduced the meeting participants to the types and forms of child abuse. They presented a video clip and a presentation on this topic. They presented in detail the signs of abuse, a lot of attention was paid to the methods of upbringing and the issue of interaction between members of foster families.

Continuing the theme, the assistant to the Mikhailovsky interdistrict prosecutor Novokshchenova A.G. acquainted those present with statistics on the violation of the sexual inviolability of minors, the responsibility of foster parents and the types of punishment. Korneeva L.I., deputy head of the department for ensuring the activities of the commission on minors and protecting their rights, after analyzing the situation in the urban district of Mikhailovka on the above problem, drew attention to the measures of administrative responsibility of legal representatives and their wards, to those articles of the Code of Administrative violations of the Russian Federation, for which minors and their legal representatives are most often brought to justice.

The inspector for juvenile affairs of the department of the Ministry of Internal Affairs of Russia for the city of Mikhailovka, O.V. Gorina, told the audience about the state of juvenile delinquency, the mechanisms of early detection of child abuse and violence against children.

Educator-psychologist of the branch of MKU "Social and leisure center" Yunost "Obolonina OV told foster parents about another very important problem of our time: childhood suicide. About what foster parents need to pay attention to in the behavior of children, what needs to be done, where to go for help, how not to miss the first signs, the first "cry" for the child's help.

The meeting was continued by the specialists of the support service for foster families of the Mikhailovsky orphanage. They brought to the attention of the parents the directions of the activity of the service, which provides comprehensive support and psychological, pedagogical, legal assistance to foster families. They spoke in detail about the service for preparing candidates for foster parents, which has been operating in the city district since 2013, and about the Foster Parents' Club. They talked about the results of the club's work, about what opportunity the Club gives to foster families: parents have an additional opportunity to communicate with each other, share experiences, jointly solve problems that arise in the process of raising foster children. During the meeting, many substitute parents expressed a desire to take part in the work of the Club.

Subsequent speeches concerned direct activity foster parents. In her speech, Deputy Head of the Department of Guardianship and Guardianship Levina I.N. brought to the attention of those present the results working together, elaborated on the problems of delivery annual reports, conducting prophylactic medical examination of children, collecting alimony for the maintenance of wards.Chief specialist of GKU "TsSZN" in the urban district, the city of Mikhailovka Drugova S.G. spoke about measures of social support and assistance to families with foster and foster children, institutions of social protection of the population, the provision of vouchers for children health camps and sanatoriums.

Guardians (Trustees), adoptive parents adopted Active participation in the meeting, asked their questions. They were presented with information booklets on the prevention of child abuse, information about all the services where they can turn, if necessary.

In conclusion of the meeting, Tymoshenko E.A. answered the questions most frequently asked by the guardianship and guardianship department: providing foster parents and their former foster parents free of charge legal aid, providing housing to former wards, etc., turned to foster parents with a request to consider the issue of accepting orphans and children left without parental care, identified in the city district, as well as those who are brought up in children's homes and children's houses.

Guardianship and Guardianship Department

(Identification, registration, arrangement. Adoption. Registration in the regional databank about children left without parental care, organization of their placement in a family of citizens. Organization of training for citizens who have expressed a desire to become a guardian / guardian / adoptive parent. Assignment and control of payments lump sum when transferring a child left without parental care for upbringing in a family, funds for the maintenance of the child in the family of a guardian (trustee) to a foster or foster family, remuneration to foster parents. Organization of summer health improvement for orphans. Representing the interests of minors in courts. Reports in MO and PO RO) - Martynenko Elena Nikolaevna.

Leading specialist in the protection and protection of children's rights(Accompanying the wards and their families. Appointment and control of payments of funds for the maintenance of the child in the family of the guardian (trustee). Supervision of the activities of guardians, assessment of the observance of the rights and legal interests of the wards and the performance of duties by guardians and trustees. Protection of rights and legal interests, personal non-property and property rights of orphans, and children left without parental care, placed in families of citizens. Organization of medical examination of orphans. Taking measures to return children left without parental care to a blood family. Representing the interests of minors in courts, compulsory execution of court decisions, including those related to the removal of a child and the transfer of it to another person) - Shostak Elena Valerievna.

Leading specialist in the protection and protection of children's rights (Housing registration of orphans. Protection of the rights and legitimate interests, personal non-property and property rights of orphans, and children left without parental care, arranged to be raised in families of citizens. Protection of the rights and legitimate interests of persons from among orphans and children left without parental care. Request for the necessary information, information in public authorities, local authorities, organizations. Post-boarding support of persons from among orphans and children left without parental care. Representing the interests of minors in courts. Reports in MO and PO RO) – Olga Radko.

Child Welfare Methodist(Identification of children in need of state assistance, assistance in providing assistance to families with children in difficult life situations, ensuring the protection of their rights and legitimate interests. Maintaining a bank of families in a socially dangerous situation. Identification of problems arising in the family and referral of parents (legal representatives) of children, and, if necessary, the children themselves and their other relatives, to appropriate institutions to receive assistance. Organization of pre-trial resolution of a conflict or settlement of disputes between citizens in relation to minors. Representation of interests of minors in courts) - Rozhkova Ksenia Pavlovna.

Legal adviser (Organization of explanatory work to the population in legal matters on the protection of the rights and protection of the interests of minors. Issuance of permits for withdrawal, transfer of funds from personal accounts of minors. Representation of minors' interests in courts, at a notary, etc. when registering real estate transactions. statements of citizens on the issues of: alienation of property, minor children: on the issuance of a notice of encumbrance of the property of minors at the expense of funds maternity capital; changes in full name minors; decline marriageable age minors. Pre-trial peaceful settlement of a dispute about the procedure for communicating with a child) - Grosheva Valentina Nimofeevna.