Cheating on her husband…. Does this sound familiar to you? Unfortunately, cheating on my spouse is too familiar to me. Conscience torments. On the other hand, it seems to me that Vitya is more to blame for my betrayal than I am.

Now I will tell my story, and you will decide which of us is worse and what is my psychology of female infidelity to her husband

We met on Vkontakte. We talked for a long time, then we met. The third step was that we began to live together. After a while, we were solemnly married.

For all the time that we were together, I never went "to the left". And there weren't even such thoughts! Of course, I had to endure a lot, yes! My beloved spent too much time with a laptop "in an embrace". I was angry! And complained to my sister for such a life. The sister said that her husband never leaves the laptop. He "got hooked" on one game, to which he "stuck" like a bath leaf. And then I realized that everything was not so bad for me!

But that all changed as soon as I found out that my beloved spouse was "traveling" on the dating app. He went into the store and did not close the window with the application (apparently forgot to do this). Well, I couldn't resist…. I read it…. All the words that he spoke to me and wrote in messages, he wrote (and spoke, most likely) to others. Resentment and annoyance overwhelmed me and wounded me in the depths of my heart…. The "shock surprise" effect played a role. I cried, cried, cried .... Until a childhood friend called me. He called, and I somehow calmed down a little, because I was always "able" to be distracted by phone calls and conversations.

Slavik offered to come to him. I agreed (I don’t remember exactly how this happened). He told me not to go on public transport, and called me a taxi. I know that he was sincerely worried about me. I didn’t deny that much. I packed up and drove off. At his house I had a gorgeous and romantic table. Everything was dark, beautiful…. I even melted a little. It seemed to me that Slava invited me on a date, but I drove these thoughts away from myself. He remembered that I was not free, and would not seduce me! After drinking a bottle of champagne, I realized that I was very wrong.

He hugged me. We watched some super comedy. Then, spontaneously, it came to kissing. We remembered our distant past. About ten - eleven years ago we met. Oh my God! How time has flown by!

We turned off our mobile phones at the same time, settled down more comfortably to each other…. It all happened suddenly. But I don't regret anything! True, I woke up in his arms. I knew there would be a showdown at home. At first I just wanted to lie. But then I decided that it was not worth doing. Slavik made me an excellent breakfast, brought it to bed, put flowers on the bedside table .... Everything was like in the most gorgeous movie! And I thought it was a dream. And I didn't want to wake up. Slavik saw that I woke up and said the following phrase: “I know that you have to go, but I dream that you will come back”. I wanted to hear it from him! And I also hoped that he would confess his love to me. He took me home, and when I got out of the car, he said he loved…. Somehow, automatically, and I said the same words to him.

A surprise awaited me at home. I entered the apartment completely silently ... It seemed to me that Vitya was at work, and he was in our bed with a girl! My heart nearly burst out of my chest. I felt so bad at the moments of what I saw that I could faint. He said that I misunderstood everything and all that. And there was no need to understand anything! I do not consider myself stupid. All I had to see - saw. I wrote a message to Slavik. He told me to pack my things and rush to him. I did so without hesitation. The husband was still trying to prove something, to stop…. But I firmly decided that it was time to leave.

What I feel? At first I was "met" by pain. But then I realized that I was happy! I am incredibly happy that everything happened this way.

I am not in a hurry to go to the registry office to apply for a divorce, as I understand that this is another "reason" to meet with him. I avoid this meeting, as well as misfortunes!

I have a friend Pauline. So she had a similar story quite recently. I also met my husband on the Internet. They also did not meet for a long time, but almost immediately began to live together.

Fields went to the store and was delayed because the queue was huge. When I came - I saw a "savory" picture: her husband had sex with his classmate! The worst part is that they did it on the couch they bought a day ago! Polina said nothing to the couple. But she slapped both him and her in the face. It’s a pity that I didn’t see it. By the way, Polka filed for divorce the very next day. She asked me to be by her side. Go…. An eerie place, of course! Now I realize that I will have to descend there too. Slavka and I are so happy that I don’t want to think about anything else! But he urges me on too. He wants me to be free. He wants to present his surname…. How touching it is!

I dreamed about this all my life. Although she lived a little, she managed to experience a lot on herself. As many, probably, as no one has experienced. But I'm not complaining! This is a very huge experience that gave me a lot to understand.

Recently I had a dream alone. Lots - lots of sweets and fireworks! I asked a classmate to "decipher" the dream - she said that it was all for the best. I would like to believe in these words at once, but it was hard to believe. Frankly, I love dreams that can be considered prophetic. And dreams can often come true if you really want to!

Will I forgive cheating on my dear? Not! I realized that I could not do this. Not from that dough I'm "molded". It hurts to forgive! And impossible. In general, I want to "get sick" with amnesia so that I can completely forget everything! But I don’t know how to achieve this sooner. Only love can heal me! She is a sorceress. You will need to take lessons in magic from her….

Girls, dear, my to you useful advice: do not cheat on your husbands and do not forgive them for treason! If you change it just once, everything can repeat itself many times! And then it will be difficult to stop, if at all it will be possible to do it.

If you have already had a betrayal - go through it! Imagine that it was somewhere and not with you. It's always difficult to learn to live anew, but that doesn't give anyone the right to back down! Neither you nor anyone else. Always try to keep this in mind.

M dinners are arranged, many, so that they cannot miss the chance to spend time with a beautiful or attractive woman. But what about their, no less beautiful, spouses? Men never think about them during the "emergence" of this chance.

Cheating on her husband. - What do unhappy women feel when they find out about the betrayal of their spouses? What is the opinion of women about those men who commit adultery?

They say this:

Valentina, 22 years old:

He went on a business trip. I left, and I waited. I realized that in vain. I called every day! And I suspected nothing. And he came and said that he had changed…. He said that it all happened by accident, but I don’t believe it! And I cannot forgive! I want to divorce him so as not to torment my soul. And then she's already wounded.

Victoria, 27 years old:

A man's betrayal cannot be forgiven, as well as a woman's! Many people make mistakes when the betrayal of loved ones is forgiven! But…. Love is love! Nobody can cancel it, and will never be able to redo it. I got divorced when I found out that my hubby cheated on me. A neighbor on the vestibule told me. She walked from the night shift. In a car parked right at our entrance, she "noticed" the betrayal. Yes, they made love in the car! Sveta didn't want to tell me about it, so as not to hurt, but I'm so grateful to her .... Otherwise I would never know that my beloved may be unfaithful to me.

Carolina, 19 years old:

I have - tin! Just yesterday, my spouse "caught" with some kind of fifochka in our bed! You can imagine this, huh? I parted with him, mentally, as soon as I saw it. It's good that my baby is all right. I am now three months pregnant. It's a pity that I contacted such a person! He did not take any oath of allegiance to me, I did not ask. I hoped that all this would be "by default" with us. That's all the "silence"! Do not trust men one hundred percent, no matter what they swear!

Taisiya, 24 years old:

I've been crying for a week now. Tears do not stop flowing from the eyes. How painful…. How painful it is! I will not tell you the details, because I’ll go crazy! But I understand those girls who have experienced the same. Girls, men are so arranged that we are not always respected. And it remains to accept only this.

Romalia, 21 years old:

I had a dream that my husband was cheating on me. I dreamed of the whole process, from beginning to end, but I still could not wake up, although I made many attempts. Now I live, and I'm afraid that it may turn out to be true. I live in such fear that I cannot tell you! I hope that this dream will not come true.

Olga, 20 years old:

My husband and my girlfriend took a shower together. I have not forgiven treason! I'm not stupid at all. Treason is like a blow: hit once - maybe hit a second time! I would never have experienced this! I don’t know how I live now. So insulting, and so empty…. The whole body is torn apart from melancholy!

Darianna, 18 years old:

My husband cheated on me so that he doesn't think he cheated. He had sex virtual on Skype! I took him by surprise. In short, I went to a friend's for the weekend, and arrived three hours earlier. And what did I see? I saw "this very thing", only…. On the monitor! Horrible! The computer is mine! I won't touch him again for sure! It is so disgusting that everything at all! He made no excuses. He just said that this is not any betrayal. Wow! Pretty "not treason"!

Alesya, 23 years old:

About treason…. Some men do not consider oral sex or kissing on the lips to be cheating. However, if they find their girl in the arms of a girl, they will be reproached for treason! Many men are generally firmly convinced that it is only possible to cheat on them. That is, if they cheat, it is forgivable, given the whole habit of polygamy and the idea of ​​it.

Olga, 22 years old:

Mine cheated on me, and said that he did it through the fault of instincts! He wanted it, you see! I wanted so badly that I could not resist. Oh, how I wanted to punch him in the face! Animal! Will not forgive! It happened two and a half months ago, but the sediment never goes away. Carries me roses, gifts! Wow! He decided to bribe me. No really! Let him give everything to the one with whom he could sleep!

Lussia, 21 years old:

In our country, by faith, you cannot change at all. Therefore, I am not worried about this! But it's a shame for those women who got it great from men in terms of this. It is a pity that I cannot cure their moral pain. Girls, women, hold on! I am with you! I hope my presence, a little, will mitigate such cruel circumstances.

Zhanna, 22 years old:

A friend told…. Met a guy. Loved him to the point of complete madness! And the guy cheated on her with her twin sister! She even swallowed pills. But doctors saved her. It turns out that not all doctors are bastards. But to me (personally to me) only such and came across forever! A friend, of course, broke up with her beloved, as she found out about infidelity. I would do that too!

Aliya, 26 years old:

My boyfriend cheated on me with my mom! Now they are husband and wife. And I do not communicate either with him or with her. Mom tried to establish some kind of contact with me, but I cannot forgive her. I also understand that she did not know that he was my fight - friend, but she knew everything perfectly!

Olesya, 21 years old:

Forgiven the betrayal of her Cyril. He managed to change me three times already. But I love him so much that I will forgive him for just one confession. And after all, it was necessary to decide on it somehow! I don’t understand how I managed it, but without him I’ll die, and that’s all! Cyril is a scoundrel, but I want to be with him.

Vera, 23 years old:

I will never understand those girls who forgive for treason! My boyfriend even got flowers in the face for this! Now I have lagged behind. Let him return to the one with whom he was better than me! And I will find a boy who will truly appreciate me.

Love, 20 years old:

Women also cheat quite often. And I cheated when we fought! True, she has not admitted, yet, to any infidelity. I love my harmful man! I think if it comes to parting, I'll tell you everything, as if in spirit! There will be nothing to lose anyway! Conscience…. She is also a woman. She understands and justifies my every act! I was lucky with my conscience!

Ilona, ​​16 years old:

I'm dating a married man. I know that he is cheating on me only with his wife. But this alignment suits me, because I am younger than him, and he is not free. She chose a married one herself! Why not be content now?

Recently settled in our apartment best friend my wife's. At first I could not even think that it would settle down so firmly on our square meters. She lived with us and had nowhere to go. I had to spend the night in the kitchen for a long time. Once I found out that a friend does not like men and became my wife's mistress. A story from life in the first person.

Vitya, Sveta has some small family problems here. Do you mind if she sleeps with us? - somehow my wife asked me.

I have known the world for a long time. She was even a witness at our wedding with Natasha. I can’t say that I was delighted with this request, but nevertheless I allowed it. Out of his naivety, he hoped that Sveta would really only spend one night with us.

What happened to her? - asked Natasha when she finished talking on the phone.

Yes, her husband kicked out of the house. Such a brute! Not only did he cheat on her, but Sveta was also to blame. How do you guys manage to find the culprit in everything?

I shrugged in response. If you believe everything that Natasha just told me, then Sveta's husband is really a scoundrel. But I do not exclude the fact that Sveta could easily present everything in this way. Putting a man in a bad light for women is as easy as shelling pears.

While Svetlana was getting to us, Natasha and I tried not to waste time. We live in a two-room apartment. We are in one room, and the children are in the other. Natasha and I have two children: boys Pasha and Kostya. Therefore, the question of where, even for one night, to place Sveta was relevant.

Well, not in the kitchen to lay it? Boys can come here at any time. Don't even change! Let's do it then. I’ll spend the night in the kitchen, and then you and Sveta are in our room, ”I suggested to Natasha.

She did not argue. In such a situation, it is difficult to come up with something else altogether.

A couple of hours later Sveta came to us. Her arrival turned into a small evening gathering.

Vitya, you have no idea how impudent he is. I suspected before that he had someone. But lately he has stopped even trying to hide his mistress from me, - she began to talk about her difficult female fate.

Despite the fact that she is considered my wife's best friend, we have known each other for many years, I do not know her husband. Somehow we didn’t have a chance to meet at joint events, as families we didn’t go anywhere together. So he could only judge him according to the words of our guest.

Complaints about her husband dragged on long after midnight. Since this was happening in the kitchen, my bedroom for one night, I had to listen to all these effusions. And my Natasha assented to her friend. During the night that Sveta spent at our house, she bored me a lot. They began to enrage her endless complaints about her husband and the fact that Natasha agrees with her in everything. I had the feeling that I had ended up in some kind of a man-haters club, and then I began to feel completely redundant.

Vitya, there is such a thing ... Do you remember that we talked yesterday about the fact that Natasha will only spend the night here for one night?

Such an introduction from my wife could only mean one thing. Now she will ask if I am against it if Sveta stays with us for more. How he looked into the water!

She just really has nowhere else to go. And she didn’t manage to rent an apartment yet. She has a meeting with the realtor in the evening. Here he will take it off and will no longer bother us.

Well, do not kick your wife's friend out into the street? Although Svetlana is tired of me, not letting in a person who has nowhere to go is too much.

The meeting with the realtor was unsuccessful. The apartment that was offered did not suit Sveta. Now she went to such meetings with realtors, almost every day after the main work. It's easy to guess that all this time she lived in our apartment, and for me the kitchen managed to turn into a living room.

At first, the fact that a strange woman was living in my apartment bothered me. I had to give up some of my habits. It was not possible, and to retire with his wife, since Sveta could enter the room at any moment. Then I got used to it a little, and after some time I even began to manage to see the advantages in this.

One woman is good, but two are better. Sveta tried to help with the housework, regularly spent evenings at the stove, cooked various dishes, and at the end of the month even gave part of the money for the rent.

In parallel with this, I began to feel that Natasha and I were moving away from each other. She's all hers free time began to spend with Sveta. I have always believed that being jealous of a wife for her girlfriends is the last thing a bum man would have to do. I did not consider myself one of those, but, quite likely, very soon I could join their ranks.

Natasha, let's go to the cinema on the weekend? My mother has already agreed to take the children with her. She missed them very much. And you and I haven’t gone anywhere together for so long, ”I suggested to my wife.

In fact, I didn't need this movie for nothing. I'm not a big fan of going to cinemas, but at that moment it was important for me to make sure that Natasha still wants to spend time with me.

Certainly! You are right - we have probably not been to the cinema for a hundred years. I don't even know what's going on there now. A where are we going? If you don't mind, I'll ask Sveta where she wants more, Natasha chirped happily.

And what does Sveta have to do with it? Did I invite Sveta two minutes earlier, and not my wife? And then everything fell into place.

I think you won't mind if Sveta goes with us? I don't want to leave her alone. She is now having such a difficult period. You don't know, but she filed for divorce yesterday, - Natasha explained to me.

And I, naive, thought that Sveta would sooner make peace with her husband than rent an apartment and dump ours. Now, for sure, in the near future it will not be necessary to count on it. She just filed for divorce yesterday. Now they will be divorced, in best case, a month later. It turns out that all this time she will hang out with us?

I'm not used to chopping in the heat of the moment. In general, I am a supporter of balanced decisions. I don’t remember what exactly and when pissed me off, but Sveta coped with it just with a bang. My hands were shaking from anger, and from causing a scandal, I was literally a couple of steps away. But in last moment restrained himself. In this situation, nothing can be solved by shouting and smashing dishes. It could only make things worse, because I saw how Natasha was dependent on Sveta. That's just what the secret of such a dependence is, I could not understand in any way.

To begin with, I tried to put myself in the place of Sveta. Nothing good came of it. I imagined that I had a fight with Natasha and left home. Yes, it’s likely that I’ll spend one night at a friend’s place, but not more. The next day I would have started looking for an apartment. It's no good to embarrass people in their own home I do not see. And this on condition that (I am just sure of this), my friend would not kick me out, but, on the contrary, offered to stay as long as possible. Moreover, Natasha and I and our two children did not live in a three-story cottage, in which there would be enough space for a company of soldiers. We have an ordinary kopeck piece! To be honest, the four of us are sometimes cramped in it, and then there's Sveta.

Natasha, when will Light leave us? You must understand, it's not entirely normal that she has been living with us for so long. Can't you rent an apartment? Or does she have no relatives with whom she could live?

Vitya, don't you know that Sveta has nowhere to fall for an apple in her parents' apartment? Her sister lives there with her husband, nephews, brother and girl visit from time to time. Eight people in three rooms! Well, where else is Sveta?

Where is she for us? There are five of us, but in two rooms. She can't always live with us.

After this conversation, Natasha took offense at me and then for several more days she talked to me only in cases of extreme necessity. “Vitek, you’re getting there. Soon this Sveta will move you out first to the balcony, and then to the garage at all, she will transport your things. Be careful with this. Women - they are so cunning, - my friend, and also my neighbor in the garage Anton, advised me. - Although, what am I upset? We will see each other more often. I will come to visit you in the garage ”.

We met with Anton that evening in a pub, which is located not far from my house. After Sveta's quarrel with my husband, I began to look there almost every day. I just didn't want to go home.

Anton turned out to be right in some ways. Slowly but surely, Sveta kept me out of the house. I wonder if she did it on purpose?

And then I began to notice that Natasha had changed her attitude towards the male sex. Several times I started the old hurdy-gurdy that Sveta would be nice to collect her belongings and get them out of our apartment.

“Vitya, why does she bother you so much? She doesn't even bother us a bit. You have a sofa, TV, refrigerator with food in your kitchen. What else do you need? "

Now Natasha, I am sure, at the suggestion of her friend, began to think that men are unpretentious creatures who are at the lowest stage of evolution. Anton is right - at this rate I will soon be living in the garage. A sofa, TV and refrigerator are all I need to be happy.

Talking to Natasha about Sveta's move was useless. I had a few more ways to evict an obsessive friend. The extreme of them is to just take and kick her out, and then afterwards throw out all the things. But, given Svetino's influence on Natasha, I was not sure that my wife would not follow her. I went the other way. If earlier I spoke about Sveta exclusively in a whisper or in her absence, now I just stopped limiting myself. Sveta returned to discussing the issue of moving, almost every evening. And he tried to do it in such a way that the essence of our conversation would accurately reach her friend's ears. Did not help. The light was impenetrable. With me, she continued to act as if nothing was happening. Like, she doesn't know about my position. Although I am sure that she hears all the conversations with Natasha perfectly.

The situation was radically changed by an unexpected acquaintance. I, by already established habit, whiled away the evening after work in the pub with a glass of beer. And then a complete stranger sat down next to me. At first I thought that he confused me with someone,

Are you Vitya? My friend's husband is practically ex-wife Lights? the stranger asked me.

I nodded back.

I know that Sveta lives with you.

After these words, I managed to be delighted: at last he changed his mind and decided to return her home. But no…

Be careful with her. She destroyed our family, and now, I am sure, she is working to destroy yours.

Yes, it was noticed right!

I did not expect such a turn of events! And what to do next? Has my wife got herself under my nose, not a lover, but a mistress? With a lover, everything would be much easier - at least you know how to behave. And what to do with his mistress?

In the evening, when I got home, I dragged my wife into the kitchen to talk. I was determined. It was not enough for my wife and her friend to instruct me.

Natasha did not begin to deny it for a long time and confessed everything.

So, let Sveta gather her things right now! I don't care where she goes. We do not live in the Stone Age - in extreme cases, we will spend the night in a hostel. Maybe he will meet his love. If she doesn’t collect it, then I’ll help her and send her from the balcony, for speed, ”I confronted Natasha with a fact.

If you drive her out, then I will follow her, - apparently, Natasha thought to frighten me and force me to abandon her decision in this way.

But I was not in that state then.

You are welcome! I can help you to put things together as a company.

Natasha freaked out and went to tell everything to her mistress, and at the same time to collect things. She really left that evening with Sveta. I had to tell the children that my mother went to help Aunt Sveta settle in her new apartment.

It seems to be believed. The relationship between Sveta and my wife did not last long. About a week later, Natasha showed up at home. We talked for a long time, she cried, asked for forgiveness. I told her that I had forgotten everything, that I forgive her. But I'm not really sure.

Whatever one may say, but Natasha cheated on me. Even if not with a man, but still, betrayal took place. But we have two children. I would like them to grow up in a complete family. And I set a condition for Natasha: that Sveta should no longer be on the doorstep. And also no other close friends who can destroy family happiness.

I never thought that you could get into ...
Jacob

An absurd situation happened to me, as in that joke. Celebrated with homies in a night bar, I don't remember what kind of holiday it was. There I met her, she is such a pretty brunette. We exchanged mobile numbers, and that's the end of it ... ..

The call rang out 2 weeks later, in the late afternoon.

- My husband went on a business trip, I'm at home now alone, come, otherwise it's boring, - she chirped.

I rush to her, take a bottle of cognac, a box of chocolates on the way and go to the address.

We met. Something cognac ran out quickly. I had to take two, I'm flying to the store, there is no brandy, but there is vodka. I cling to the liter and back. She's already made a couple of salads. After the first crushed bottle, she began to stick. Well, why should I break it off or what? Of course not!

I’m still the same diver, as I dive, dive without a suit and scuba gear. And not such depths came across. I dived, in general, I go ashore. We drank some more, I go for a swim, I dive ...

And then the clang of the opening lock is heard in the door. Everything sank below the plinth.

- The husband returned to the campaign !!! She whispered.

I put on a T-shirt at lightning speed, jump into my jeans, fly up to the window, damn it, 5th floor. I’m going to break. I'm a diver, not a paratrooper. If I were him, I would continue swimming in this situation. The age-old question: what to do? Oh, come what may. I’m standing ... Husband enters the bedroom.

Everything sank below the uterus. That's who the paratrooper is, it's him. Wardrobe 2 x 1.5. Looks at me, then at her, is silent. He comes up to me, I smile like a fool in fright. Wearing my right hand on my nose. To say that sparks fell from his eyes means to say nothing. I stayed on my feet.

With a huge index finger of his left hand with the words "get out", he pointed me to the front door.

- Got it ... - I nodded, feet in hands, or rather feet in sneakers and out into the street.

I'm walking, staggering. The head is spinning either from the hops, or from the blow. The nose hurts terribly. Here's to you, on, our respected valiant police on a gazelle, they take me and are going to lead me to the monkey house.

This was the limit. My blood pressure jumped and, in addition, a broken nose - like blood gushing out. In hospital.

The doctor on duty is a 45-year-old woman and two 20-year-old nurses. We filled in some papers, measure the pressure. 210 x 150. I stuffed gauze swabs into my nose to stop the bleeding. My tears flowed from pain.

- Pants down, I will put the injection - said the doctor.

Here I am like a sickle below the belt. I didn't have time to put on my panties. What to do? Oh, come what may. I expose half of the fifth point. Silence ... Oh, a shot.

“You can go,” she said.
- Thank you, thank you - I say embarrassedly and evaporate.

I got home without incident. That brunette didn't call again.
I understood the moral for myself: do not sleep with other people's wives at their own house, but sleep with them at home ...

P.S. Pretty brunette, I leave you my panties as a long memory, hang them in the bedroom above the bed, they still won't fit your husband.

11 monstrously real stories of betrayal and treason

What's worse than that in a relationship? It seems nothing. Every day we all try to make our relationship more or less normal and healthy. After all, this is real everyday work, and not just sighs in the moonlight. And then one day the moment comes when at the other end of the line someone does what to expect from this person, it would seem impossible. You can't figure it out on purpose.

At a party, I found him in the bedroom during an orgy

“Somehow my now ex and I came to a party. There were more guys than girls, but I knew someone and sat down to chat. Then I lost it. I searched all over the house. And I found it in the bedroom, there were five more naked men and two heifers. They seemed to be having a lot of fun at that moment. But not for me. "

I skipped work to throw a surprise party where she cheated on me

“I didn't go to work to prepare a surprise party for my girlfriend. And in the midst of the fun he caught her with another. There was a scandal. And the next day I was also fired. "

My boyfriend brought another chick for Christmas

“We celebrated Christmas with our friends. And my boyfriend brought some weird chick there. When I saw her, I was shaking. I looked at him with a dumb question: “Dude, are you serious? What does all this mean?". He said that it was his friend who had called her and he had nothing to do with it. Plus she was kind of dumb and drunk in the ass. And I was terribly offended because I felt that they had something. "

When I didn't feel like having sex after giving birth, he told Tinder and went on dates.

“I've never been jealous of him. He liked to hang out all the time and I didn’t interfere. My pregnancy was not planned, but we had a sweet relationship and we did not consider abortion. A month after giving birth, I naturally needed to recover. And he downloaded Tinder and went on dates. I found out only a few months later when my friend came across his profile. A year later, I went into an internship and hung out with all sorts of promising smart guys and slept with them. Then she returned. She told him everything and broke up with him, proud of herself. "

Some guy asked my ex to send me a photo. And she sent me naked

“I was dating a girl. Once she asked me to print something from her mail and gave all the passwords. I did everything, but went further poking around in her computer. And I saw that she grazes on all sorts of dating sites and communicates there only with men. One of them asked to send a photo and she sent my photo where I am naked. She turned out to be a bastard and after we parted and once sent me a photo of another girl with the caption: "Look, I found something better than you."

My best friend at university wrote off my term paper and passed it off as her

“A college friend of mine wrote off my job and passed it off as hers before me. And set me up in front of the professor. But they gave me another chance and made another project and defended it. And she failed because she didn't know the subject. "

When my mom was pregnant with me, my older sister caught my dad kissing my mom's friend

“Mom was betrayed by my biological father and her friend. They were caught by my sister, and my mother found out about everything a few days after my birth. I was 22 days old and she threw him out of the house. My father began to live with my mother's friend, they adopted the boy, but then father left them. He never gave me anything or bought anything, but only wrote letters in which he told how he bought himself a new TV or new car... I'm still angry with him. ”

Once at a party I went crazy

"We had serious relationship but the guy called them "open" all the time. And I thought that he cheated on me three times. Then I broke into a swinger party and messed up there with a huge number of people. Only 27! ”

I caught my ex-husband cheating when I was 8 and a half months old.

“I caught my husband with another woman when I was very pregnant. She yelled at both and hit him and her. I returned home, put all his things in boxes and sent him to his mother. On the same evening, I started having contractions and I went to give birth. My daughter was born a little premature, she is now 14 years old. And I sincerely wish her never to experience this. ”

The guy broke up with me by text message because I "study too much"

“My first boyfriend seemed to me very nice, all the time he said that he loved me, but at the same time he worked all the time. Then he began to skip our meetings and invent all sorts of reasons. And then I received a message from him that we cannot meet, because I “spend too much time studying. I was terribly upset and my self-esteem dropped wildly. Then I found out that he messed with his ex and met with his former colleagues for money or for gifts. I am very glad that fate has taken such a piece of shit away from me. "

In parallel, he dated another girl who paid for him everywhere.

“Everything was perfect when we started dating. True, sometimes she complained that she was completely broke, and then suddenly appeared with expensive gifts... But all the time they were items from the same store or gift vouchers. I began to suspect something. This went on for a year, I began to follow him and be very attentive. And I found out that even longer than with me, he was dating a girl from another city. I told him about my guesses. He said that I was crazy and I needed to see a psychologist. Then I talked to her and she told me that she works in a store, from which gifts, and pays literally all his expenses, even the phone and health insurance... He later told me that he simply fell in love with me, and could not part with her because of the money. Then I told her everything, but she loved him so much that she could not leave, he manipulated her all the time. Then I decided to leave ”.