Wherever a person is, this world will be around him. Grass and flowers will grow, birds will sing and other people will walk. And taking care of this world from each person will help to preserve and improve it. And, of course, it is best to start with your own actions.

When rubbish is lying on the road, it is not pleasant to anyone. And if we just make it a rule to throw garbage only into the trash can and not let others litter, then the world will become a little cleaner for us. Yes, sometimes you have to become a bad cop and make a remark. After all, if everyone is silent, nothing will change.

Usually, it is in a big city that the alienation of people from each other is most pronounced - people do not even know their neighbors on the site. But a person who really needs your care can live nearby - to help carry a heavy bag, hold the elevator doors, inquire about his health, listen in difficult times.

Care and Attention- that's what people really care about!

Taking care of parents

It so happens that we love our children too much and, unfortunately, too few of our parents.

Coming into this world, we first see our mother. Some are more fortunate, and they see dad at childbirth. Further, taking care of the child comes to the fore in the family, and parents protect and help their children all their lives.

Children in early childhood love just like that, and as a teenager, usually a little detached. Having become quite adults, they can almost completely forget. How does this happen? It's just that the usual quarrels and secrets of children from their parents create, little by little, a chasm between them. Although they both secretly love each other.

No matter how sad it is to talk about it, the moment of realizing relatives as the most beloved, in spite of everything, sometimes comes too late. For different reasons. And those who want to say "thank you" for the advice and just express their love are no longer with us ... Can you save yourself from belated regrets?

Caring for parents for their children is not an easy burden. Caring for their parents is also not easy for children. But you can try to make the relationship with the closest ones a little warmer, and this in itself will be a lot.

Just call to see how you are doing. Visit at least once a month and bake a cake with your mom. Help your father record his favorite show. Even buying them their favorite food at home is anything better than indifference.

Respect and Help Parents- very applicable to life and touching advice. And here is our video showing this clearly.

Taking care of children

The cubs of many animals come to this world more or less independently, or become largely independent in the first few days. They immediately know how to stand on their feet, and cetacean mammals give birth to a cub that already knows how to swim. In humans, children are born completely helpless and care for children is very strongly expressed and developed in our country. Before us is a newborn - this little man, a white sheet in which what you write down is what you get. How to raise him correctly, instill in him qualities worthy of respect? How to make it capable and successful without being overwhelmed or broken by our overwhelming concern is what we care about.

The most important thing is not to break the children. By nature, they are very lively, and adults with their problems often do not keep up with them, and, as a result, try to stop them.

What does childcare include?

Nothing compares to maternal love to the child. It is she who takes care of the child from the very beginning of his life until her last breath. In infancy, she changes his diapers, feeds, bathes, socializes and plays. Everything is simple here.

But as he grows up, caring for a child or children becomes a little difficult. This is no longer a bobblehead, but a small man or a small woman, and he or she should be treated like that.

The best care for children is one that is not imposed, suppresses or destroys the child and his outlook on life. It may not even be felt, but at the same time be fully.

Love and Help Children- simple advice, clearly shown in this video.

Consider an example: caring for a child.

Let's say a father walks with his son to a toy store. Yes, a child may like a very expensive toy, for which there is currently no money, or which he cannot yet master, although this happens rarely, today's children fly faster in their development than a rocket.

Caring for a child does not necessarily mean buying him the most expensive toy in the shop. And it is absolutely certain that this does not mean buying him "a typewriter that you missed so much in childhood." Care will be to give the little girl the opportunity to choose her first toy bed or doll or whatever she herself wanted to. A Sport section for little Vasya, Kolya or Petit will be good for him only if himself there is an inner desire to do this.

Of course, taking care of children includes good supervision. If a child climbs into a well, turns on the gas in the kitchen, runs on the highway - riding unreasonableness will not control him. It will be the direct responsibility of the parents and the care of the children not to let them harm themselves or others. Otherwise, the child will simply decide that since he got away with it now, he will get away with it in the future, and this may turn out to be the last prank that he committed in this life.

Taking care of yourself.

Very often you can hear stories that the wife before marriage was a beautiful, spectacular woman, and the husband was fit and played sports. Taking care of yourself, especially when "this is no longer necessary" is not an easy task for many. But how can you be happy in a family, take care of it, if you don't even care about yourself ?!

A self-satisfied person usually does not seek to belittle others, but, on the contrary, tries to make them better. If that same wife in a greasy robe takes care of herself and is at home even purely for herself to make beauty in front of a mirror, she will see herself in the best light and be able to do something else good and have more enjoyment out of life.

Of course, everyone has situations when there is no strength, desire and mood to take care of themselves. In such cases, a walk in a spacious, aesthetic place, such as a forest or park, will help to restore morale. You can also take a shower or bath to help you relax and recover.

And nothing restores faith in oneself like something useful done for other people. And it doesn't really matter what it will be - helping your grandmother wash her clothes or feeding her hungry dog. After doing a useful job, you feel that life goes on!

And here is another video, the appeal of which is precisely this - Take care of yourself!

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Caring for elderly parents

Parents age and their bodies inevitably weaken and deteriorate, making them more susceptible to physical illness that can affect any organ. With the growing realization that there is no way out, the aging person must try to find some way to come to terms with the disturbing new reality.

Filial piety is an important factor in providing care for the elderly in our traditional Asian society. As Asians, it has long become the norm for us to accept and feed elderly parents in our own homes, as much as possible.

Do children have any legal responsibility to care for elderly and disabled parents? Unfortunately, the answer is no. Parents simply have to depend on the goodwill of their children. While we are proud of our values ​​and cultural heritage, unfortunately, the number of senior citizens in Asia without savings and abandoned families is growing. Our challenge is to consider whether our values, including filial devotion and mutual love for children, are actually being erased by the destruction of traditional family relations and the changed economic and demographic situation.

Cramped apartments and shacks are not places that favor elderly parents. There have been numerous cases of old people neglecting their children or their relatives. It is a sad situation when good values ​​and traditions are not practiced.


For the most part, social care facilities and their surroundings are also not places that are conducive to living for elderly parents. Of all the living alternatives, nursing home placement is without doubt the most sensitive issue, often provoking feelings of guilt through accusations of ingratitude, lack of devotion, filial piety and abandonment.

Nursing homes, although somewhat expensive, offer the most satisfying alternatives. Each person must decide for himself and understand that there are no ideal options. While long-term placement is a sensitive issue, it is important to provide adequate care for weakened parents.

Accommodation in a nursing home does not mean "send your elderly parents away," or at least it shouldn't. Family involvement remains essential for proper care, from the first step in choosing a supportive environment, to maintaining constant communication with staff, regularly visiting parents and involving him or her in family affairs, and they should be happy and aware that there are people who truly care for them. ...

Some irresponsible individuals with sick or elderly parents send their third-class hospital rooms, leaving false addresses or simply disappear from the scene. This is truly the cruellest way to get rid of your own elderly parents.

Caring attitude, as well as caring for elderly parents should prevail if the older generation does not have a negative impact on the acceleration of socio-economic changes in urbanization and industrialization. It should be understood that older people are more vulnerable to these changes and degradation of moral values ​​in society. It should also provide for the responsibility with which older persons receive treatment, care, respect and respect.

This aspect of caring for elderly parents requires collective responsibility. It will also instill respect for the elderly, as there is no better institution for the care of elderly parents other than the family itself.

In many of his discourses, the Buddha advised children to pay special attention to their father and mother. There is an old adage that says: "Provide good care parents and you will never know how much you miss them when they leave this world. "

It is very difficult to define the vague term “ parental love”, Although this phenomenon takes place. And the child needs little sublime epithets and heartfelt words, he needs something very specific: a sense of need and significance for parents, a sense of security, as well as a kind and fair everyday attitude that allows him to develop.

99 out of a hundred parents will confidently say that they love or really love their children. But if you ask them what exactly their love is expressed in, then the majority will only say: “Love is love” or “It is difficult (impossible) to express in words, it permeates our entire life.” And only then, deep in thought, they begin to give a well-grounded answer. Childcare is one of the fundamental aspects.

A loving parent takes care of his child from the very first days of his life. He teaches the kid to walk, talk, reflect, observe, get acquainted, orientate himself in the world. The adult plays a leading role in the formation of the unique personality of the little man. Caring for a child involves certain daily chores: it is useful to feed him on time and is useful, to provide him with clothes and toys, and to protect him from possible troubles. Recently, it has become fashionable to actively help the child develop mentally. All these worries are so invisible in Everyday life that adults cannot always evaluate the result of this care, and even more so the child's attitude towards it, which is not always positive.

Often, parents tend to load their child with the maximum number of activities. These are language lessons, dance, sports and art sections. The aspiration is essentially very good, but in in this case it is important that the child himself sees the meaning in these activities, he liked them for a long time. And it is not necessary for the baby to do everything at once, otherwise the care of the parents will not be appreciated. On the one hand, the child does not want to upset mom or dad by refusing to go to a circle, on the other hand, going to this very circle turns out to be a torment and simply an uninteresting thing. Such an internal conflict of the child leads to the fact that he may have nightmares, he begins to bite his nails, often has a bad mood for no reason.

Another type of excessive concern is expressed in the fact that parents protect the child from all the difficulties of life. They control his every step (did homework, put the textbooks in a briefcase, etc.). But the child perceives such an attitude as annoying interference in his life, which is fraught with protest and distance from his parents. And although outwardly everything looks normal, in fact, the parents do not understand inner world child. They do not want to recognize the independence of the child, trying to impose their desire and vision of the world on him.

Very often, parents forget about the uniqueness of their child's personality, playing the role of the "ideal parent". But the child is an autonomous person who has every right to his own preferences and decisions (albeit sometimes erroneous). And it is necessary to treat this person extremely carefully, to understand what she really strives for. She creates herself, and along the way there are problems and difficulties. But these are the problems and difficulties of the child, not the parents, and he must learn to cope with them himself. The simple desire for the child to be, if not excellent, then definitely good, is understandable, but anxiety for the baby's actions is a parent's problem, and it is worth fighting this feeling.

A child at any age faces a difficult task - overcoming difficulties and obstacles, the result of which is faith in oneself. Therefore, he must be allowed to fall at the first steps, let him go on a hike with friends, argue with the teacher or dye his hair in green color... Parents should understand that it is simply physically impossible to always accompany their daughter or son. And excessive care can turn into serious life failures due to the inability to make even elementary decisions yourself. After all, annoying care is perceived by him not as a manifestation of love, but as suppression, an obstacle to his own actions. But for the harmonious development of the baby, he needs a certain balance of care and freedom from the very early age... Parents should not only take care of him, but also approve of his independence, recognize that the tastes, thoughts, ideas of the child have a right to exist (no matter how naive they may seem from the height of adult life experience).

It is advisable to accurately distinguish between your parental desires and the child's aspirations. Of course, when it comes to the safety of life (norms of behavior in society, healthy habits, etc.), the conviction that you are right is justified (but not pressure, especially if your lifestyle leaves much to be desired). But if the matter concerns the personal choice of the child (with whom to be friends, what sport to do), then you should not rush to persuade. After all, it is unlikely that an adult (who considers his child to be an intrinsically valuable, unique person) knows in advance what his child should be and what he should do. A child is not a piece of clay, from which you can sculpt whatever you want, and not a rare species that should be protected from the breeze. The baby is active from birth, improves himself, changes his attitude to the world.

And your help will be most effective if the child himself asks for it when he needs it. You just need to be able to hear these requests, and gratitude will not keep you waiting. And for help, and because you believe in the strength and independence of your child.

| Taking care of children for their parents |

How often do we talk to our parents? How often do we pay attention to them? It so happens that, after scattering to their families, children only occasionally remember their elderly parents. They are rarely visited and show their attention with only one phone call for a week.

But this is not enough if you want to show your parents that they are valuable and loved to you. Your parents should feel that you are worried about them. And for this you have to take care of your parents, as they once took care of you. How can you actually show such concern?

1) Invite your parents over. They, as before, want to communicate with you. And despite the fact that you are now adults, independent people, they are happy to give you advice. After all, for a father and mother, you will always be children who absolutely need parental advice. Do not deprive them of the opportunity to give it to you. Thanks to life experience, parents can give a lot of wise and valuable advice and encouragement at the right moment.

2) Take your parents out of town, for a picnic or a walk. Enjoy nature together. Such trips bring people closer together. As you walk, you can share your concerns and joys with your parents. And how nice it is to remember the time when you were just children and spent a lot of time with your parents, walking in the park in the same way.

3) They will certainly appreciate if you bring them food or just visit them. Even if you visit your parents uninvited, they will still enjoy your visit.

4) A phone call is also very important... No matter how busy you are, you can always call your parents and ask them, inquire about their well-being, or, how their day went, ask what they need. You can also tell what happened to you. Parents are always interested in what is happening in the life of their children, but children often forget about it.

5) Ask your father and mother to help you with something., for example, sitting or taking a walk with your children. Grandparents are always happy to spend time with their grandchildren. So your parents will be busy, will be able to help you, while feeling that you need help, and it is they who can provide it to you.

Thank your parents for what they have done and continue to do for you. After all, their attention, help and love cannot be compared with anything. Now that you've grown up, it's time to actually show your parents how much you value, respect and cherish them. No matter how busy you are, no matter what life worries are depressing you, remember always about the most dear and beloved people in the world - about your parents.

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