She wants to remain friends. I can only change love for friendship, or disappear from her life forever.

I choose the latter. Why? Because this is how it should be ... You cannot live in a house that has been burnt down.

“No,” he said quickly. “Not that. Stay friends? To plant a small vegetable garden on the cooled lava of faded feelings?

No, this is not for you and me. This only happens after small intrigues, and even then it turns out pretty fake.

Love is not stained with friendship. The end is the end.

Erich Maria Remarque. Triumphal Arch

Selected quotes

• Whatever happens to you - do not take anything to heart. Few things are important for a long time.
• It's easier to sleep with a man than to call him by name.
• What can one person give to another, except for a drop of warmth? And what could be more than that?
• Without love, a person is nothing more than a dead person on vacation, several dates, a name that says nothing.
• A woman grows smarter from love, and a man loses his head.
• Love is not stained with friendship. The end is the end.
• No person can become more a stranger than the one you loved in the past.
• The lightest character among cynics is the most unbearable among idealists.
• Only the one who has lost everything worth living for is free.
• It is strange that a person can die ... when he loves ...
• Love hates explanation. She needs action.
• A man is not a man if his wife controls the money.
• Anything that can be settled with money is cheap.
• You will say that it was I who left you. And you will give a lot of reasons ... And
  you yourself will believe in them ... And you will be right before the most ancient court of the world -
  nature.
• Nothing awaits a person anywhere, you always have to bring everything with you yourself.
• A lonely person cannot be abandoned. Oh this pathetic need
  a person in a grain of warmth. And is there really anything other than
  loneliness.
• Loneliness is the eternal refrain of life. It is neither worse nor better than
  much more. They just talk too much about him. A person is always alone and
  never.
• Man is great in his plans, but weak in their implementation. This is his trouble, and his charm.
• And when I feel very sad, and I have nothing else
  I understand, then I tell myself that it's better to die when you want to live,
  than live to the point that you want to die.
• I have nothing against adventure, and nothing against love. AND
  least of all - against those that give us a little warmth when we are in
  paths. Maybe I'm a little against ourselves. Because we take, and
  in return we can give very little ...
• Those who look back too often can easily stumble and fall.
• Words spoken in the dark, can they be true? Real words need a bright light.
• Morality is the invention of the weak, the plaintive groan of losers.
• Expectation eats away at the soul.
• A person is always different at night than during the day.
• How pathetic truths become when you speak them out loud.
• Love is not the right word. It speaks too little. It is like a drop in a river, a leaf on a tree. All this is much more ...

Fans are wondering - what happened in the personal life of the singer Anna Sedokova? Was there another failure in her? The ex-member of the "VIA Gra" group intrigued with a post about love and friendship, noting that the second after the first could not be.

Many people are not indifferent to the events on the "love front" of Anna Sedokova. Still - the beauty was married twice and has three children. As you know, the beauty prefers not to name the father of the youngest son, but does not hide the fact that there were many novels in her life. Recently, the star showed a new chosen one - Daniil Velichko, and many decided that now the star is happy in a relationship. But she suddenly posted a sad post:

“My beloved Remarque wrote:“ Stay friends? To plant a small vegetable garden on the cooled lava of faded feelings? No, this is not for you and me. This only happens after small intrigues, and even then it turns out pretty fake. Love is not stained with friendship. The end is the end. "

Anna asked the fans of her work whether they believe in friendship after a love relationship. There were many skeptics among them who declared that it was impossible. There were also those who managed to maintain communication after stormy "passions", but there were few of them:

“No, but if you love, you will agree to be a friend, at least from time to time to see a person, and not tear him out of your heart.”

“It's good that ends well. And true love, if it happened, then there can never be any friendship after it. "

“But if just love has passed, then of course. How can you just become strangers when you have so many things in common? And if a betrayal, then there are no options. Because betrayal is betrayal, it doesn't matter in a relationship or in friendship. "

"I am friends with all the exes, I think it's okay."

"No I do not believe. But friendship before great love is ideal! "

“Of course not, it’s impossible. What kind of friendship is if the feelings were real. "

It is not known which of former lovers meant Anna, perhaps it is not at all about her current boyfriend. At the same time, there is information that her second husband, Maxim Chernyavsky, took her daughter Monica away from her precisely because of the frequent change of boyfriends. Now Sedokova is trying to return custody of the baby, who lives in the United States, through the court.

Many celebrities advise choosing men more carefully, but she claims that she always listened to her heart, and not the voice of reason.

Friendship between a man and a woman is an eternal dilemma that everyone argues about. How many people, so many opinions. These feelings go hand in hand through life. Can an ordinary, friendly relationship arise without falling in love and romantic feelings? Love and friendship have a lot in common - to understand where the border is, and it can be difficult to distinguish it. To begin with, it is important to understand these concepts and determine their meanings. What are romantic feelings and what are friendships.

Love - you can talk about it endlessly, this is one of the strongest and most beautiful feelings that people experience. It has many meanings and forms. The main types of love:

• Eros - romantic feelings, sympathy for a man or woman;
• Storge - means feelings for relatives, family;
• Filia - feelings that are manifested to close friends;
• Agape is love for God.

Every facet of love contains a feeling of deep affection for another person. She encourages to live for others and to give. In the name of love throughout human history many heroic, beautiful, fantastic deeds were performed. It doesn't always have a happy ending. But it always makes the one who manifests it happy. The ability to love others enriches and gets rid of selfishness.

Friendship is a relationship between people, the basis of which is love, honesty, sincerity. Close friends have mutual sympathy, common goals and interests, complete trust among themselves. Friends help each other become better.

The concepts of love and friendship seem to be closely related. These feelings simply cannot exist in isolation. There are no friends who do not love. And sympathy will arise if the foundation is good friendship... More than one example has shown that the secret happy marriage there is a close, trusting relationship before marriage. Husband and wife have a duty to be best friends.

Common Grounds for Friendship and Romantic Feelings

Both falling in love and good friendship are characterized by attraction. People who communicate closely, like couples in love, can miss each other. They have a desire to often spend time together, call up.

Friendship and love both involve a close relationship. The desire to share intimate, your feelings, dreams, goals. A loved one or friend becomes special, closer than everyone else. The connection based on understanding and trust is possible in both cases.

Friendship or love is simply not possible without mutual respect. You cannot say that you love a person and at the same time treat him carelessly or somehow humiliate his dignity. Both feelings encourage mutual support. Thanks to this, any relationship becomes stronger, develops and is appreciated more. And, of course, the time spent together is enjoyable. It's nice to laugh together, wait for the next meeting.

What is the difference

This is not love, but friendship, how to be sure? While friendships and romantic relationships have many things in common, there are also significant differences. It is possible to distinguish these concepts in many respects. Of course, good friends have a lot in common; they may have the same outlook on life, common aspirations. But just Good friends do not strive for the general realization of their goals. Only potential families plan a joint future.

You can also determine the true attitude towards a person by the amount of attention given. Even the strongest friendships do not spend as much time as romantic relationship... Lovers have everything theirs free time, give each other every minute. And if it is not, then it is not love, but friendship, or even something less.

When two people love, they do not have the concepts of "I", "me", "mine", they say "we", "us", "our". Comrades have a need for each other, but still each of them has his own life. Friends go through life in parallel, side by side, and when they tie the bonds of love, the two become one. Of course, the relationship of couples in love is in many ways closer and warmer than friendly feelings. On these aspects, distinguish and understand the difference between friendship and serious love relationship will not be difficult.

From friendship to love

Can a good friendship grow into something more? The answer is obvious: yes, it is possible. As mentioned above, strong families come from good friends. Nobody is immune from love. And now it is more difficult to distinguish this fine line. Friendship grows into closer relationships gradually and imperceptibly. Therefore, it is not possible to determine immediately. Relationships become warmer and stronger, a person becomes simply irreplaceable in life. This is how they have been friends since childhood, they sit at the same desk, share their innermost secrets. But they say that they are just friends, there is no question of love. But suddenly something happens and the two fall in love. It's great if these feelings are mutual, you get a wonderful family.

Of course, this feeling does not always arise. The question cannot be answered in the affirmative. Some will say no, others yes. It all depends on each situation separately.

There are many examples of friendship between opposite sexes. But there are no less examples when she developed into a warmer and more tender relationship. Sympathy, close relationships may arise, but they will not be romantic, but rather like family relations. Two people can be united by common memories, the past, they are comfortable together. But there is a different kind of love between them. The relationship between a man and a woman can be like a brother and sister relationship. But again, no one is immune, even a very long ordinary communication can turn into romance. It is not always easy to understand and sort out your feelings. The time spent together will help determine this. Love and friendship are the kindest and brightest facets of human relations. It's great when they complement each other harmoniously. Regardless of whether it is friendship or love.

Everyone in life has someone who will never let you go, and someone who you will never let go.

No, he said quickly. “Not that. Stay friends? To plant a small vegetable garden on the cooled lava of faded feelings? No, this is not for you and me. This only happens after small intrigues, and even then it turns out pretty fake. Love is not stained with friendship. The end is the end.

No person can become more a stranger than the one you loved in the past.

What can one person give to another, except for a drop of warmth? And what could be more than that? Just don't let anyone come close to you. And if you let it go, you want to keep it. And nothing can be kept ...

How awkward a person becomes when he truly loves! How quickly self-confidence flies from him! And how lonely he seems to himself; all his vaunted experience suddenly dissipates like smoke, and he feels so insecure.

Human life drags on too long for love alone. It's just too long. Love is wonderful. But one of the two always gets bored. And the other is left with nothing. Will freeze and wait for something ... Waits like crazy ...

Love hates explanation. She needs action.

All love wants to be eternal. This is her eternal torment.

Only if you finally part with a person, you begin to be truly interested in everything that concerns him. This is one of the paradoxes of love.

Only the unfortunate knows what happiness is.

Only the cows are just happy these days.

You can talk about happiness for about five minutes, no more. Here you will not say anything, except that you are happy. And people talk about misfortune all night long.

In fact, a person is truly happy only when he pays least attention to the time and when he is not driven by fear.

The most wonderful city is the one where a person is happy.

The more primitive a person is, the higher his opinion of himself is.

The lightest character among cynics, the most unbearable among idealists.

The less self-esteem a person has, the more he is worth.

If you want people not to notice anything, don't be careful.

A person can become close to you in three days. And the one who has lived next to you for years may never know what is your favorite color.

You will never find yourself funny in the eyes of a woman if you do something for her sake.

I stood next to her, listened to her, laughed and thought how scary it is to love a woman and be poor.

Women should be either idolized or abandoned. Everything else is a lie.

Women do not need to be explained, they always need to be acted upon.

If a woman is angry, then she is not only wrong, but also knows about it.

A woman is not metal furniture for you; she is a flower. She doesn't want to be businesslike. She needs sunny, sweet words. Better to say something pleasant to her every day than to work for her with sullen frenzy all my life.

It seemed to me that a woman should not tell a man that she loves him. Let her shining, happy eyes speak about this. They are more eloquent than any words.

It is better to die when you want to live than to live to the point that you want to die.

Repentance is the most useless thing in the world. Nothing can be returned. Nothing can be fixed. Otherwise, we would all be saints. Life did not mean to make us perfect. For the one who is perfect, a place in the museum.

Principles have to be violated sometimes, otherwise there is no joy in them.

And no matter what happens to you, don't take anything to heart. Few things are important for a long time.

Only the one who has lost everything worth living for is free

Memories are what makes us old. The secret of eternal youth is the ability to forget.

If nothing can be changed anyway, why drive yourself to insanity. / Remark /