Unwillingness to share toys and things notice many parents from their kids. Often, moms have to be blushing for children away or on the playground, when the little thunder shouts to the peers "I will not give!"

Greed is the natural defense of our own "values", the struggle for the right to possess something. It is impossible to teach share if you deprive the child's child's right to share or not. The baby watches parents who have things are divided - there are mother's, there are dads, therefore, there is his own.

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Greed. Age steps

1-2 years. The concept of "greed" at this age is missing as such, precisely in 1-2 years the child is formed the ability to say "no". People who were not allowed to learn how to say "no", they are very suffering, becoming adults. Their mothers were very afraid that children would grow greedy, and they rose trouble-free.

2 years. By two years, the baby already consciously utters the word "mine" - things are a continuation of his personality. It is important to know the baby that he himself, as well as his things unrecognized without his consent. Now he forms an idea of \u200b\u200bhimself itself and begins to set the boundaries that share "its" and "alien".

3 years.By three years, the kid acquires the ability to say "no". Inability to say "no" leads to indulgence of whims of the surrounding people to the detriment of themselves. It is also important and to teach the child to clearly track the brinks: where exactly the natural reaction to the actions of others turn into greed.

4 years.A new stage of socialization begins. Communication comes to the fore. Toys and personal belongings become instruments providing this communication. Awareness comes to the baby that to share is to have people.

5-7 years. When Ksyusha had a sister, she was 6 years old. When the sister has grown, Ksyusha began to fiercely defend his "wealth" - could snatch a doll from the hands and even hit. Of course, such a behavior was very saddened by Mom, who inspired Ksyusha, that it was bad.

At the age of 5-7 years, greed is an internal disharmony of a kid, testifying to internal problems.

The main causes of greed in children: Why is the child - Zhardde?

To "cure" greed after five years, you need to understand where it appeared from. Experts allocate several main reasons:

- The child lacks parental love, attention, heat. Most often, the little lady grows in families where the manifestation of love is another gift from too busy parents. Then the baby perceives these things as especially valuable, and in this case greed becomes a natural consequence of the situation;

- Jealousy to brothers and sisters. If the brother (sister) gets more attention and parental caress, the child automatically expresses its resentment by the manifestations of greed and aggression towards him. In this case, it is not necessary to insist that the elder child in order for anything else to share his toys;

- Excess attention and parental love. Often, children who are always and everything can become real tyrants for their families, such kids believe that they are the center of the Universe, and all people should perform any whims. Here will help the designation of the borders, the measure in everything;

- Shyness, indecision. The only friends of the toddler coward in communication are his toys. With them, the child feels safe. Therefore, and share the baby, of course, does not want;

- Excessive thrift. This is the very case when a child is so worried about the safety and integrity of the dear toys, which does not allow anyone to play them.

"My Vasya is almost 2 years old. When we go to the site, he puts his toys to Lineberka, and he plays strangers himself. If someone takes his machine, then immediately takes away, and maybe can. Even inconvenient to other mothers, because Vasya can hurt their kids. I am afraid that he will grow up the church ... "- tells Elena.

How to "treat" children's greed? What to do parents? Specialists share their recommendations.

How to communicate?

- Make sure you give the baby enough attention and caress: Talk, discuss the past day, walk, play. Good emotional contact with the child is the best prevention of greed.

- Look at what position the child occupies in the family. Do not let him become small tyran.

- Read books, look together cartoons about greed and generosity (for example, "We divided the orange").

- Learn a generosity in the family - it is your model of behavior of a child who sees and adopts: help those who need help, feed the abandoned animals in the shelters.

- Do not get a child with others: "Everyone will think that you are a greyhound!" So you bring up an uncertain person who will depend on the opinions of foreign people. If he is inspired that he is greedy, then not to get rid of this vice.

"Tell your baby about the joy of sharing toys:" Another person is nice, he begins to treat you better. " If the karapuz is hiding his toys for the sinus, and the strangers take with pleasure, explain that such an exchange is not honest.

- Praise the child for kindness. Let him remember that Mom rejoices when he shared toys with someone. A hundred more cases will leave without attention and condemnation, but one case of generosity will turn into an event.

How to behave in the playground?

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- The child is angry? Someone and calmly explain to him - why he is experiencing such feelings. Learn to recognize it and constructively express your emotions.

- Learn even a very small child to ask the owner of the toy, you can use them. It is clear that if the crumb is still quite small, to ask permission to play another toy should mom.

If the conflict has already begun ...

1. At that moment, when your child roughly selected his toy from the other, take himself in hand. Do not be angry and do not shout on the baby. Actually, also do not be angry and do not call the hedge of the one who took the toy.

3. You can offer a "offended" child another toy instead of controversial, but necessarily asking the consent of the small owner.

4. If the mother of the "offended" child looks at you condemningly, then she has or a very small baby, or she adheres to the strategy "he must share." In any case, do not join the controversy.

5. You can not take away from your baby toy and give it to another against the will of your child - it is equal to betrayal. "If a strong mother takes away from me, a weak, toy, then why and me, imitating my mother, can not take a toy with the one who is weaker than me?" - Think a child.

6. When a serious dispute breaks up for possession of a toy at once, several children, an adult person is the most reasonable to resolve the conflict itself, for this it will be enough to organize a joint game of kids.

Remember that greed is a normal phenomenon for kids. Be patient. Greater, the child will see and feel a positive return from its generosity, and the support and approval of the mother with dad will further strengthen the understanding that it acts correctly. If you feel that it is not able to cope with greed, then perhaps it is not at all in it, but in the problem lying deeper. Feel free to seek help to a psychologist.

In earlier childhood, many parents face the problem of greed of their children. Do not panic and start thinking how to fix it all. Do not. All children aged 2-3 years - egocentrics. It is laid by nature. They feel themselves in the center of the Universe, and all that is near is their continuation. At the request to give you a toy, the child faces a problem - you, in his opinion, require its part.

And the baby does not understand why his mother asks him part to give her to another child. Maybe mom does not love me, but loves this boy? These thoughts make your child feel guessed, although he does not know the reason for his misconduct. According to psychologists, a greedy child is not a character of character. This is what the child at the moments of psychological difficulties exhibits a deposit.

Therefore, the main task of the parents of a greedy child is to help overcome the psychological problems to him.

In the present time, few parents devotes all their free time to classes with a child. Most often, grandparents and grandparents are engaged in the upbringing of children or a child with a nanny, which will not replace his native mother. The relationship between parents and children is broken, an emotional dependence is minimized by each other. All this imposes a fingerprint on the children's psyche. Gifts made by parents are perceived as value to which you need to protect and protect. And while the situation in the family does not work out, the parents will not install close and trusting relationships with their own child, it is simply useless to deal with glory attacks. There is only one solution that will definitely give positive results - this is working on your relationship.

The parents of a greedy child scold and make sharing their toys.

Why some children are willing to share, and for others it is a whole tragedy?

The kids up to two years do not associate themselves with a non-clotting environment. Only on the third year, visiting a kindergarten, they begin to understand that some things belong only to him. Then he begins to perceive clothes, toys. But this perception is significantly different from the adult. The child believes that all things belonging to him are his part. When someone asks a toy, the baby perceives it as an encroachment on him himself. That is why he strives to rebuild the encroached. The fact that the child does not want to share with others, speaks of his independence. This is not at all egoism and not a caprication, as parents think often. At this time, the correct behavior of parents is important. We must give to understand the child that its needs are meaningful, they respect them. Otherwise, greed attacks will turn into a character. It is noted that children grow more generous, confident that they love them.

Not depending on whether your greedy child or not, it is necessary to talk to him on this topic. Even if your child is now generosity, do not rush to rejoice. Psychologists argue that exclusions of greed can begin at any time. If the child welcomes and does not share his own, parents most often becomes a shame for his behavior, and they are really truth and untrue pickover this toy and give it to another child. And this is completely wrong behavior of parents.

How should parents behave if your child does not want to share in the Sandbox of a kindergarten?

Does your child start to postpone the word "mine" to each word?

So, he begins to form a holistic picture of himself. He ceases to talk about himself in the third face, begins to use "I". Now the "I" and "My" child is inextricably linked. All that "mine" is the continuation of his personality. Now he has never acutely perceived the situation if someone sits on his chair or take his favorite toy. At this age, a greedy child is not considered as a negative person. The most important thing is now for the kid to know that all his things for others are inviolable and belong only to him. It is now that the child knows that there is not only him, but also someone else's. It is very important not to miss the moment to parents and teach the child to ask permission if he wants to take something not his own.

If you do not want your child to be greedy, follow the tips:

Praise the child for good deeds. Especially note its generosity.

Be yourself generous and responsive.

If a child sees your actions, he will strive to repeat them. With that, it concerns not only good deeds, but also bad.

Watch yourself. Teach the child to change. Show how great to give your toy and play at this time someone else's or, even better, teach to play together. No need to apply violent methods in teaching generosity. Know that it is useless.

Respect the decision of the child regarding his toys. Do not call your baby to the chinese. This may lead to the fact that he will think that he is bad and no one loves him. Let your child feel the joy from the fact that it is generous. You can arrange small

For two years, new words appear in everyday life - "My", "" I will not give. " He is increasingly flashing quarrels with other children about toys, and parents appear new questions. The child greadings what to do? Does it require a similar correction situation? If so, in what extent?

Intelligent dictionaries are determined by greed, as an allecent desire to satisfy their exorbitant, insatiable desires, misfortune.

There are two types of children's greed:

1. Unwillingness sharing his own.

2. The desire to have a stranger.

Greedy people are condemned by society. Greed is considered vice. The Bible defines greed as a mortal sin. When we say that a child is Gready, do you mean that he is so spoiled? Obviously, no. What is childhood greed, and why do we disturb her manifestations?

Why does the child greeding - the opinion of psychologists

The kid develops and begins to realize its significance, feel the own "I". Such concepts as "friendship", "generosity" will come later, but as long as the child perceives, as a person, only himself, and parents, things, toys - as their integral part. This is his world. The baby still does not know how to use the mind, he thinks feelings and emotions. When someone is trying to destroy his world and encroach on integrity, the crumb starts to have tools.

It means that the child does not have a spanking greed, but the level of development associated with the formation of a person. This does not mean that you can let everything on samonek. If you do not correct the manifestations of misfortune in the baby, it is rooted and smoothly turns into a character in characteristic of the egoists. You need to fight greed.

And some say no need

And the examples seem to be:

"Would you give a neighbor lipstick?"

An example is incorrect, because there is such a thing as "things for individual use." The child needs to be learning to distinguish what can be given to others, and what is impossible.

Our grandmothers were not familiar with psychology as science, but they tried to eradicate the manifestations of greed teaching children with opposite quality - generosity. As a result: the neighbors knew each other well, did not hesitate to blame the objects of economic necessity, were friendly and ready to come to the rescue.

Modern children also need to teach generosity, but the following question arises: "How to do it right?"

How to wean a child greeding?

You can see how adults are trying to resolve conflict situations between children. If the child does not give up a toy, he insistently persuades it. And if the persuasions do not help, the toy from the hands of the small owner is forcibly dying to give it to someone else's baby. Such an appeal with the child is unacceptable!

What else can not be done?

You can not count the baby, especially in the presence of others, calling it a bad child. The advantage of a small little man needs to be respected.

Do not allow the surrounding stamps on your child, calling it to the chinese. Kroch learns the rules of behavior and comprehends the foundations of communication with themselves like. He needs your support and understanding. When parents allow foreign aunt and unlishes to call the baby, it hurts him and lonely.
Never compare your child with other children, emphasizing how disgusting it looks on their background. Such comparisons can cause a complex of inferiority in the kid.
Traumatic methods are not suitable. For the correction of an unwanted feature, time and patience is required. It is necessary to gradually train the baby of generosity and attenuate, understanding what values \u200b\u200bis more important - things or people.

Eradicate the manifestations of children's greed correctly

Going for a walk, take with you not one bucket, but two. Not one syllable, and not one ball. There is a chance that the kid willingly share toys with other guys.

When children begin to argue because of toys, offer them to make an exchange. Let Tanya, to ride a puppet stroller, will give Kat to play with his teddy bear. If at least one of the kids objects, do not insist.

Playing in a sandbox with his child, connect other children. If they are one scoop, in turn, they will leave the hole, it will teach them to pass the thing from the hands in the hands - to share.

Wrong conflict? Try to switch the attention of the baby. Suggest to run on a swing, ride a slide, feed pigeons.

Invent at home games in which dolls or animals show generosity to each other.

Choose a book for reading, and to view the cartoons in which the readiness to share is considered as a positive quality, and greed - as a negative.

Apply a good example of generosity when you show hospitality or make gifts to relatives and friends. It is not about the example in the monetary equivalent. It is important for the child to understand that we have the attention to others, sharing, give it nice.

And about children's greed

Recall that there are two types of children's greed:

1. Unwillingness sharing his own.

2. The desire to have a stranger.

Paradoxically, the attention of adults is usually aimed at a kid that does not give their toys to another. It is about him that the child greadings. The kid who cries from the fact that he could not get someone else's thing remains in the shade and is considered a side offended.

The child needs to be explained that there is someone else's property and you can not take things from another person without demand. When the baby understands this, he will cease to be offended without receiving a visiting toy of his neighbor in the sandbox. So it will be able to get rid of the second type of greed.

Relationship psychology is the most difficult area in a person's life. With the help of adult crumb, it will surely lit up this science, only you need to give it time.

Finally, I suggest you smile, watching a video, like a little Masha claims that she is a greyhound!

Zhaddea - does not give

This is the story of us ... We approached the age when this greater begins to manifest, I quietly hoped that we would pass past this period, as in the diary of development it was written, not paying attention, but not there was something .. . We visited the forest with our favorite girlfriend, she was almost 4 years old, and, of course, all the time the girls tried to share toys, clothes and everything else. And if Vika did not give something, then the girl called her to the chinese. It is logical, of course. And so my child quickly learned this word and his meaning, and now, when you try to ask her anything, she answers "no, greyhound" and, of course, does not give. Well, I can pick up, but there are no other children and people. And when she says, then everything naturally comment on that it is not good to be so good, etc. And what about doing with it ??? How to remove it from a kid head? She's already specifically, this word says and greadings!

I took someone else's

We went with moms and children from our courtyard to walk in the forest on the sand. Naturally taken with me buckets, blades, etc. And here, Masha's such whims began, all the toys from other children takes, crying, demoling them into one pile and sits as a greedy dwarf near them. When the kids were taken to her apartments, such a roar began, just a lucky grief, only the chest managed to calm down. What toys Mamina Masha seems to understand.

Decision

How to teach generosity

If you want your child to grow up not greedy, think about your relationship with him today. Often the situation happens when you have to divide one apple on all family members equally. You may argue: "How can I eat a part of what the growing organism needs?" That's right. You can give the child it part, and the rest can be removed from the eye. Later, when the baby and think forgot about the apple, you will share the rest, and we will gladly eat it together. It is important that your child see and understood that everyone wants to eat. If, from early childhood, he will hear that you do not like apples, and chopped in your distant childhood, do not expect that when your child is growing up, it will begin to share with you. He sacred believed that you are talking to the truth. "He became an adult, it's time for him to understand what to share" - with bitterness and offend, tell me. But, is it possible? For many years, you convinced a child in one, and now hoping that he will share with you what you never want? It is unlikely that this will happen. Each of us must be consistent in their desires and actions, only then can be hoped for reciprocity.

Right not to share

Here is a person confident in his right to have something. He gives a thing valuable for life, but he suddenly discovers that someone has the right to take possession of her at any time. Here he is given (!) For a birthday (!) Box of candies, which he has long dreamed of. But he did not have time to refresh, as it turns out that the box, it turns out, was given only to show everyone he is kind, and in the case of protest, stick to the hedied. It turns out quickly that all gifts, especially edible, are designed for this, - so they want their parents. I would have looked at my mother who would have been obliged to demonstrate his kindness to all guests when he receives a dear set of cosmetics or a Gzhel service as a gift. What would you do in her place? And what will you advise the child who is fatally in such a situation? True: to protect yourself from encroachment.

Greed is an obsessive, but the natural struggle for the right of ownership, when this right you take away. The best way to make greedy - make sharing. A person who fully owns, will never refuse mercy: he is not afraid to lose the right to decide. Free person gladly pleases other people. And if he decided not to share - this is His Holy Law.

I gave my children the right not to share anything. It is easy to guess that they are glad to share when they want, and they find a buzz in the gift of gifts. Everyone has become better.

Comment: In essence, right. It is impossible to teach share if you deprive the child's child's right to share or not. And how to? Vividly show Bonus Bonus from what you share with someone. Those. It is nice to another person, he begins to treat you better and can give something to you. In addition, the mother refers very well to generous.

All toys - Mamina!

You came to your girlfriend with a child. Your child disposes of "his" property. I took all the toys for myself (which is normal for this age) and follows that no one takes. As a result, the girlfriend is angry, her baby is upset, your child sincerely does not understand what he did not.

And if all the toys belong to the mother and the child knows it, then for him the mother is an authority and he understands that the mother manages toys competently. Then you say: "My toys, I give me a bear, and bunny, Babika." All Mom decided. This is her property. All satisfied.

Or in the sandbox. Your child took other people's toys (with permission), and does not want to categorically want. And the mind, whose toys he took a lot wants to play your car. If this is a child's toy, he may not give, another child is offended, picks up his toys. Your baby is upset by a breakdown of the contract. In general, everyone is crying. And if these are mother's toys, and she sees that the interests of her child are taken into account (other people's toys), then she may well give their property to play someone else's child.

So, we consider each specific situation, given the combination of factors, based on the fact that all toys belong everywhere to mom, you act as a defender of the interests of your child (fair), and the baby learns to dispose of things, watching what you do .

Toys begin to belong to the child only after he can care for them.

About greed

Often, passing by playing children, you can hear: "I will not give! This is mine!" The concerned mother of the baby persistently requires: "Let the boy give her typewriter. Do not be chinese." Two-year-old crumb, pressing a favorite toy to his chest, begins to cry offended, turning away from all those present.

Most children aged 1.5-2.5 do not give their toys voluntarily. And if they give, then only obeying the parental authority, with a clear reluctance, offended and cry. At this age, the child considers his belongings, including toys, as part of himself. During this period, it is important to "not overload a stick." New situations arising every day will help the baby to figure out, "give or refuse." But only with your attentive participation and patient clarification. From how you explain to invest in each word, the further ability of the child is divided with the neighbor. Where do you come from "Shrukh guys" and "whining"? To teach the child with the notorious "golden middle" is not easy, but maybe.

For example: Do you use cosmetics? You will not donate her first on the street. Why should your baby, under your pressure, share the most valuable for him with strangers in the sandbox?

The child also has the right to own his toys. Give him more freedom. And he will be able to decide who to give his toy into temporary use, and to whom - to refuse.

Little Jadde

"My son is 1 year and 8 months old. From an early age, he not only does not give anyone his toys, but also takes toys in children. What I did not try - persuaded, took away, but he raises such a cry ... You know, at dinner he takes me even a plate with meal, although his plate stands in front of him. Tell me how to deal with greed. "

Young mother, apparently, seriously refers to the upbringing of the Son. But in the letter - almost all pedagogical mistakes, which only happen ... Talk about them. See →

How to teach a child to share

Children are difficult to share, especially small. This is the normal part of the development process. Awareness and acceptance of this is the first step that helps the child to become a generous person.

Egoism comes before the ability to share. The desire to own is the natural reaction of a growing child. During the second and third year of life, the child goes from understanding himself in unity with his mother and begins to become an individual, determining itself separately from the mother. "I myself!" and my!" - The main words of the baby. In fact, "mine" is one of the words that the child is easier to pronounce. See →

Almost all parents face such a problem that their children under the age of 7 do not want to share with their toys with other children. Not all parents know how to act in such cases and how it is necessary to teach children to share with others. Cm.

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What to do parents if the child is greedy, preventive conversations are always needed, and why, forcing the baby to generosity, we put a cross on his happy future - we will discuss all this in the article.

When greed is normal

Baby aged 1-3 years reluctantly share toys. Each mother came across the situation when the child takes his toys, does not let them have other kids.

In such a position, we usually experience awkwardness. Especially if the mother of "deprived" Karapus begins to comment on the situation: "Fu, what greedy." It is because of this, many begin to put pressure on their child and demand it to share.

But one-year-old children only learn to say "no". They begin to realize their needs and desires.

At this age, it is impossible to forced to share, the child must learn to refuse, defend its rights. If this does not happen, then in adult life it will go on the other to the detriment of himself.

Two years perceive the favorite thing, and others are with them and do not take a walk as part of themselves. They have a sense of property, and this is normal. After all, we are not ready to give a unknown uncle phone, wallet, personal belongings. So the kids are not ready to give what has a special value for them.

No need to with the words: "Do not be chile", make them share. Switch the attention of children to another thing or occupation. At this age it is even easy to do.

Children of three years can selectively "give" others. They do it reluctantly. The task of parents is not crushing: "Let me see / play." And explain that frank greed is bad, borrow a friend thing for a while is good.

Do not forcerate to share with everyone in a row. After all, and we ourselves are ready to lend equipment, the car or personal belongings are only close.

Four-year children willingly exchange toys, give them. For them, this is a tool for establishing with interesting people. Again, you do not need to force a child to share, call it a church.

What is important to remember

The child also has a sense of property, and it needs to be respected. Favorite machine or doll, yes just pebbles, for the baby are as valuable for us as a smartphone, machine or decoration. We do not distribute them to the right and left.

Get to the place of the child, then his unwillingness to give the right thing, will seem natural and sound.

Do not break the personal borders of the baby, forcing him to share or distributing it without permission. This rule is relevant for children of any age.

Causes of greed in children 5-7 years

Preschoolers and older children already understand - you need to share. They willingly share a treat with a friend or give him a toy. Children's greed at this age is a signal of internal imbalance, that child needs help.

In psychology, there are several reasons leading to greed:

1. Lack of parental attention and love. Busy dads and moms compensate for lack of concern to gifts. Things acquire a special value for kid. After all, they are a sign of love of the closest people. Therefore, attempts to pick them up cause discontent and malice.
2. Excessive guardianship. The reverse side of the medal spoiled Karapuz misses itself the center of the universe. He must, no one can refuse him. It is such a child who kices toys from others, reluctantly returns to the owner.
3. Modesty and insecurity. Ensterested children are difficult to establish contact with peers. They are tied to toys, they become best friends for them. Hence the reluctance to share them.
4. Jealousy. Often older children are jealous of parents to younger. They seem to them that they forgot about them, they were blocked. Aggression and greed become a protective reaction.
5. Thrift. Some kids are very reverent about their toys. They do not allow them to touch them.
6. Mistrust. Children are not all the same with whom to be friends. Even in the two-, three years, they have sympathy and antipathy. This can be dictated by the unwillingness to share.

Wean a child to greed will help understand the reason for the occurrence of this feeling.

How to educate generosity

Children will copy the behavior of parents. Create them generosity, kindness, you can only with a personal example.

Together with the child, feed homeless animals, give unnecessary clothes and things in shelters or help centers.

Together with the child, make crafts-gifts for grandmothers and other relatives. Let the kid feel like a pleasant to give. Gidden to visit, grab small presents with you.

Pay enough attention to him, listen, play, be sincere. The child should feel that you are dear to you. Remember, love will not replace toys and treats.

1. Do not indulge your baby, do not make the meaning of your life out of it. Do not turn the karapuz in a tyrant, which is allowed.
2. Read the poems and fairy tales, see the cartoons about generosity. Discuss what the seen heard, let the child rushes.
3. Tell that it shares it nice and fun, that you can and need to share toys.

Praise for the manifestation of kindness and generosity, say that proud of his behavior.

What should not do

Do not want the child to develop pathological greed, and in adulthood he reminded Dickens Scruder - listen to the advice of psychologists.

1. Respect the personal borders and sense of ownership of daughter or son, regardless of age. Do not give it even unnecessary toys without permission. In the opposite case, the child will be established that it is not entitled to personal belongings. And in adulthood, he will turn into an eye or in a damage or in a stray.
2. Do not forcate two, three-year karapuza sharing. It will only cause him offense and anger. In adulthood, this will lead to pathological greed, subconscious fear of loss.
3. Do not accumulate the older child, do not call him a rich, if he is not divided with the younger brother or sister. This will cause jealousy and envy. And in adulthood, such education will turn into a sense of a pathological feeling of disadvantage and unhealthy competition.
4. Wake up without moraling in the style of nobody with a chief is not friendly. Such statements produce installation from the kid - I just don't need anyone to get attention, you need to give something. In adulthood, it will turn into the desire to please all, the abandonment of their own needs, inability to build healthy relations with people.

Even if your baby really greades, do not consult it in public and do not arrange a "exponential spanking".

Do not stand and make fun of the child for his greed, offer others not to be friends with him. This will only reduce the self-esteem of Karapuz, and will not teach him to show generosity.

1. Before walking, discuss with the child that he wants to take with him, is he ready to share it. If not, it is better to leave toys at home.
2. Before the arrival of guests with children, choose what the child will allow you to play guests. "Especially valuable" things hide.
3. If conflict begins between children, try switching their attention. Offer a joint game with the subject of discord.
4. Let the child not share and protect their personal things. And the exclamation of the greed of your baby, invite you to give you your phone or bag.
5. Teach the Karapuz to ask permission from the owner of the toy. If the child is shy, ask for him.
6. Explain that the thing is the baby gives for a time and it will definitely return it.
7. Discuss with the child of his feelings (anger). Explain that this is normal.

Conclusion

Greed in adult age makes man unhappy. Pathological souls are always not satisfied, they do not appreciate what they have. They are prone to depression, neurosis.

But it is also difficult for those who do not know how to refuse. They lack time and resources for themselves, as a rule, such people are not aware of their desires. They are always ready to obey.

Rising in the baby generosity, remember a healthy egoism. Without him, do not do in adulthood.