If people are asked the question: “What is your personal success?” - 90% out of a hundred, without hesitation, will indicate the acquisition of an apartment, a good car or career advancement. This is the greatest delusion, because all the benefits listed are just a pleasant reward for the work done. Studying the works of psychologists and esotericists, who discuss how to think correctly, we can conclude that self-realization should be paramount in life. Only a person who is truly passionate about his work can achieve considerable heights and remain happy.

How Basic Aspects of a New Life

As a rule, such a question is asked by those people who are disappointed in their lives, do not enjoy it and consider themselves deeply unhappy in their souls. Indeed, it is very sad to wake up every day in a gloomy mood, come to an unloved job and monotonously carry out the instructions of the authorities, which you secretly hate. Unfortunately, there are much more such representatives of the modern world than those who sincerely rejoice in the new day. How to learn to think correctly and radically change your life? Having a strong intention is the first step to success. The main thing is to never stop there. Analyze your life and think about what you would really like to do, what brings pleasure and gives a feeling of happiness. Many at this stage make a common mistake, imagining the desired income level or a specific position. However, without love for your specialty, a salary increase or a transfer to a new job will bring only temporary pleasure, and then a feeling of disappointment will seize you with renewed vigor. A person begins to respect himself, overcoming his laziness and fear. Constant self-development and self-education is rapidly bringing you closer to the goal. Never forget about it.

How to think right? Life under control

More and more people recognize this fact: what we think about, sooner or later comes true. For example, fear of superiors makes you project various negative situations onto your life. The director feels this on a subconscious level, puts more and more pressure and, as if on purpose, looks for flaws in your work. The art of thinking correctly presupposes continuous control over oneself. To change your life, you need to change your attitude towards it. It won't work any other way. Feel free to do a little exercise every day. Every morning, getting ready for work (in the shower, over a cup of coffee, on the way), say out loud, if possible, affirmations. They are positive sayings that tune in a positive way. Of course, at first this idea will seem stupid and meaningless. But when dramatic changes begin to take place in your life, you will be grateful for your perseverance. Thought forms should be short and concise, presented only with a positive intention. When pronouncing them, you should exclude the “not” particle, that is, instead of “I will not fail at the interview,” say “my employer will like me, he will definitely see my potential.”

How to think right? What to do in times of despair?

Moscow was not built immediately, so it is foolish to hope for lightning-fast results. No need to beat yourself up for weakness or insecurity, just keep repeating the maneuvers. If resentment has taken over your head, give it free rein, such emotions also have a right to exist. But don't focus on them. Always remember that a new day will come and new opportunities will surely come. And if you suddenly feel scared, try using a simple psychological maneuver: aggravate the situation presented to the point of absurdity until it becomes ridiculous. When a smile appears on your face, the feeling of panic will recede by itself.

How correct are the thoughts in your head? Find out how wrong thinking can turn out for you!

The one who has the gift to clearly express his thoughts and convey information correctly is able to control the world and people!

This is especially true of our thinking¹.

When we turn to the Higher Forces or make a wish. We often hear: "I meant (a) in mind ..." - and the Universe takes us literally and performs what we really do not want. How? You will learn about this from the experience of our reader.

How to fulfill your plan?

“A year and a half ago, I worked on correcting my health, giving my body certain tasks (settings) for the night, thanking for their fulfillment and falling asleep.

Once I asked my subconscious to remove the protective function of the skin, it was necessary for me to solve certain problems. As always, I thanked the Higher Powers for the fulfillment of my desire and fell asleep peacefully.”

Formulate the right desires!

“A sudden unbearable burning sensation in both palms pulled me out of sleep after a couple of minutes. I had the feeling that I woke up, although I was still in a dream. It seemed that my palms had to brake sharply during a rapid flight.

Next to me, I saw the face of the Savior, reproachfully, paternally, shaking his head, and opened my eyes.

Unforgettable lesson!

“In reality, I felt weak, my palms were baking. I realized what I had done, and was grateful to the Higher Powers for returning me to my body, showing me in a dream what rash desires can lead to.

This was a lesson for me. Weakness and a sense of duality did not leave me for a month.

Right thoughts are the key to the fulfillment of true desires!

“Now I am learning to speak and think correctly, imagining the possible consequences of my desires!”

The right thoughts are what can completely change our reality, the main thing is to learn how to control them!

Each of our thoughts is an object of the Universe, and if it gains enough strength, it will manifest itself on the material level. It is very important to learn to track your thoughts and formulate.

Do not neglect the thoughts in your head, they tend to become reality.

What are you thinking about? What are you asking the universe for? Answer these questions honestly for yourself, perhaps you will understand that you want to get something completely different ...

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With the help of the subconscious, you can fulfill any desires, program the future, attract desired events, develop the abilities inherent in you.

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Events always unfold like this
how we want it.
The main thing is to want it right.

You have probably heard this phrase many times. But the question is: what are right thoughts?

And is it possible to control the flow of thoughts at all? It's no secret that hundreds of thoughts run through our heads literally every minute, so that we don't even have time to "catch by the tail" each of them!

It is enough to switch the mental background from the position
« no, I can't, I can't, it's not for me"
to position “What does it give me, how can I do it, what will help me with this.”

This is the position of possibilities - to focus attention and consciousness on usefulness and pleasures instead of seeing only limitations everywhere.

The world is limitless.
The universe has more possibilities than we can even imagine.

So where do our limitations live? Only in our minds.

• "I cant",
• "I'm not worthy"
• "I won't succeed" -

these conscious or unconscious statements program consciousness and, like iron armored doors, cut us off from dreams and success.

Human nature is such that we all tend to exaggerate our shortcomings and often unreasonably focus on them. Everyone has flaws. More precisely, the qualities or features that we regard as disadvantages.

The more we talk about what is bad, the lower our self-esteem.
And, therefore, the more we attract unwanted situations into our lives. After all, like attracts like.

The good news is that any door can be opened. The main thing is to pick up the key.
The door that limits us is opened by the key of positive thinking.

In fact, when we talk about thinking in terms of opportunity and success, we are talking about positions "Yes". It can manifest itself in anything. From self-confidence to goal setting, from everyday little things to global success. Once you have formed the habit of thinking in terms of “Yes”, then you will apply it daily.

A good example of how the “Yes” attitude can manifest itself in everyday life is given by Jeffrey Gitomer, a well-known business coach and speaker:

...One day I needed to urgently sign up for a recording studio in order to prepare material for a lecture. The woman on the other end of the line said, “Nothing will happen until Friday. We have everything scheduled. We cannot accept you." I was angry, I was given to understand that my time and my work were worthless.
But the same thing could be said differently: “Jeffrey, how lucky you are! We have free time for you on Friday!”.

• We can set ourselves up for success, or we can set ourselves up for failure;
• we can focus on the problem, or we can focus on the solution;
• we can exaggerate shortcomings, or we can develop virtues.

Each time is a conscious or unconscious choice.
And every time - this is a certain result.

If you imagine thoughts as a magnet for events ...

Ask yourself, the center of gravity WHAT do you want to become?

In order to see what the background of your thoughts is right now, and whether it is worth acquiring the habit of "correct" thoughts, do a simple exercise.

Exercise 1.
Thought hunting

Set an alarm on your phone for 7 times a day or come up with another conditional signal that will stimulate you to write the thought that will be in your mind at the time of the signal 7 times a day.

Just write down the thought that you "catch by the tail." Recorded - turned over the sheet.

No need to analyze in any way, no need to look for the logic and connections of this thought. Just fix it on paper.

Repeat this thought hunt for at least three days.

Analyze what happened.

• How often do you see the particle "not"?
• Do you think about yourself and situations from a position of possibility or from a position of limitation?
• Are you a magnet for success or failure?

In fact, what you get in three days is a kind of mental background profile, an example of how you habitually think.

You may like the result. Or maybe you want to attract something else into your life. Then this profile will give you a real chance to start changing for the better.

You can change the established pattern of thoughts with a simple reformulation.

For 21 days, try to reformulate every phrase and every thought that has limitations and denials. Believe me, my 20 years of experience with communication skills suggests that absolutely everything can be presented from a position of opportunity. Even rejection.

As a separate useful skill, it is worth mentioning reframing. Translated from English frame - frame. The concept of reframing suggests that the world is always just a description of the world, and therefore any person or an event can be given different meanings depending on the point of view on it. If I feel uncomfortable looking at the world through one frame, I can take another ...

Despite its simplicity, reframing is a very powerful tool. With it, you can change your self-esteem, increase self-confidence, effectively find solutions in difficult situations, and much more.

Let's try to use reframing to analyze our own qualities.

Exercise 2.
Turns out…

Imagine that you are an explorer of an unfamiliar country. Everything that you see causes your direct interest and the most sincere curiosity.

You want to know WHAT IS INTENDED FOR, what is the use of certain objects, what kind of people inhabit this country, what opportunities it has.

The country you have to explore is you. And, as a good researcher, you have to map your abilities, talents, skills and opportunities that they open up for you.

When the researcher sees something new and unusual, he asks himself:
"What is it? How can this be useful to me?"

A good researcher leaves nothing unattended. It is known that a good owner will need everything. Let yourself be pleasantly surprised: TURNS OUT…

Write 3 thoughts that you don't like.

Write 3 actions that you don't like.

Write down 3 feelings you don't like.

Try to look at them from the position of a researcher - how can these thoughts, actions and feelings be useful to you? Write in the center column of the table.

Try to compensate for what you don't like by continuing the phrase with the ZATO construct i...

Read what happened aloud, beginning each sentence with the word TURNED OUT.

What would you like to change, add or improve?

Focus on the solution, not the problem

Instead of wasting time pointlessly blaming yourself or others, you can spend time and energy on DECISION.

We have no influence on what has already happened. But we can influence what happens further!

The energy that was previously spent on meaningless complaints, you will direct to achieve results. This will save time, nerves and rectify the current situation.

Every problem has a solution. And not just one, but many. Mahavira, the great Indian thinker, stated that for every question there are at least seven possible answers.

The only real boundaries are
those that a person sets for himself.
(Napoleon Hill. Think and grow rich)

Thoughts have tremendous power and energy. They are literally embodied in life and are able to lift it both to the pinnacle of success and to the abyss of failure. It depends only on us whether we learn to think correctly, and whether thoughts become helpers on the path to happiness or create additional obstacles.

The universe does not limit any person. This is not a point of issue of a limited number of goods. This is not a counter to which one hundred And t kilometer queue of those wishing. The field of possibilities is limitless, it is available to the mind at any moment. It is our thoughts that are the magnet for possibilities. It is they who choose specific options.

The opportunity to receive is like an ocean - it is just as limitless... The problem is that most people approach this ocean of opportunity with a teaspoon. Can you imagine the picture? Tea spoon?, - written by Jim Rohn.

Your task is to answer the question "What?".

And let the Universe answer the question "How?".

The article uses the materials of P. Ray. "Recipe for life: add happiness to taste".

A woman is like a tea bag. Its strength can only be judged after it gets into boiling water.

Education is what remains after everything learned in school is forgotten.

Once you've learned how to save, learn how to earn.

Education is what remains after you forget everything you learned in school.

Remember that only positive emotions can truly inspire and make you happy. Live clearly and brightly!

Act like you're all right. You will be surprised when you realize how effective this method is. After you manage to deceive yourself, in general, everything in the world will be on your shoulder.

Human emotions are like works of art, they are not difficult to fake. Sometimes they only seem to be genuine, but look closely - a fake.

It's all about the aftertaste. In everything. It all depends on how you feel afterwards. After communication, after a kiss, after a quarrel, after sex, after coffee, after a look. This "after" is largely decisive.

Emotions are like horses: you either control them or they gallop you.

The cause of illness is a mental fall. Illness comes from thought. Usually we all have both good and bad thoughts. What thoughts are, such is life. The spirit feeds on thoughts, as the body feeds on bodily food. Do not eat bad food and you will be healthy.

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