16 rules of self-esteem, or how to improve relationships with himself

01

Do not ask for forgiveness if you are not to blame for anything.

Otherwise, you can decide that you are a slightly accuracy type, and stop resolving yourself.


02

Never forget the day when you met with me for the first time.

Do not forget to make some nice surprise on a significant date. You may seem like nonsense and formality, but it is important for you.

03

At least sometimes call yourself just so, without any reason


04

Do not forget to periodically talk to yourself compliments.

"You look good!" "How do you get these almost completely not torn jeans!", "You are so well done, I'm just proud of you!" Just a few words, and your mood will immediately improve.


05

Do not be offended by yourself if today you do not want to have sex with you.

After all, still sex is not the only thing that connects you with you.


06

Yes, politeness and restraint theoretically better than a cry and rudeness.

But only theoretically. In practice, according to most psychologists, the hot "Italian" version of the quarrel is less spoiling the relationship than the cold "Finnish". Better than half an hour to turn on the good mate and leave the dishes than a week to walk silent and defiantly silent.

07

Choose time and get acquainted with your relatives.

In the end, you do not oblige anything to anything.


08

Do not spy on your bathroom.

Let you know for many years, but such an invasion of privacy is very annoying.


09

There is nothing of such a criminal in the fact that someone loves there soup straight from the pans with his hands, the evenings dancing naked on the balcony and collects sulfur lumps from the ears. Even if this someone is you yourself.

10

Do not save on yourself.

Potaky your little whims and great desires. If you suddenly really wanted ice cream, "Jack Daniels" or "Bugatti" of 1967, showing generosity and buy it. And in return, you will be very grateful for it.


11

Not scary if you have different interests with yourself.

Always look for compromises: if today you go to a bar with friends, then tomorrow you have changed yourself to the rock concert.


12

Do not envy if it seems to you that someone has someone better than you. In fact, you know that this simply cannot be!

13

If you tried, preparing for my lunch any exotic dish, your duty - courageously devoured this burnt low-pass nasty.