There are situations when the child begins to move away from his parents. It is very important not to break the trust thread between the parent and the child in order to provide him with the necessary help and support.

How to become a child is the best friend:

1. The child is not property, he is a guest in your home, according to the ancient Indian wisdom. You do not need to infringe upon it, let him get the freedom of choice, trust him to grow a socially adapted person.

2. Learn to hear your children. Reference, how long have you been listened attentively in the statements, the stories of your child. It may be minor school troubles, nonsense due to toys that could not be divided from a comrade and others. Parents should delve into these, even the smallest problems. In adults, such conversations can simply lack time. If possible, put all the cases in the background when your child wants to talk. If there is no such possibility, then the child needs to listen carefully and suggest to transfer the time of the conversation. Now he is divided by minor problems, and then will ask for help in more important things.

3. Talk about their work and about the work of the whole family, affect the choice of his profession. Children must see what benefits bring their parents to the world around.

4. Joint classes and games establish contact with the child.

5. Remember yourself in childhood and try to feel your child.

6. Burn together with fear of the child. If he is small and afraid of darkness, play with him. Put a reliable security guard by the bed - a large teddy bear. Add fairy tales to his life.

7. Share affairs bring together. Live full of life together, play, do something useful, discuss movies and cartoons, read books.

8. Become a support for the child. Even if the behavior of the baby or adult child is not entirely clear to you, listen to him and believe him. There are situations when children do not logically come, it is important to understand it here and give advice.

9. Treat your child as an adult. This will allow him to feel responsible and be independent.

10. Under any circumstances, love your child, no matter how harmful it is.

11. Do not pay off expensive things and gifts. Better for this money, go to the sea, on the journey or just go to the picnic.

12. You can tell a child as often as possible about your love.

13. Allow children to help you, even if help is not needed.

14. Arrange family tea drinking and symbolic holidays.

15. Ask children their opinion more often.

Parents for children should be friends first! To establish relationships with your tea, it is important to follow the main points and advice in education, remember what you did not have enough as a child, as you felt when the parents scold you. Fence the child from superfluous stresses, love it and be near that neither happens.