Surely, you have repeatedly asked yourself whether you have created an ideal union. Ideal relationships can be created, but this requires not only love and affection for each other, but also sharing interests and outlooks on life. They may not completely coincide, but it is important that they complement each other and do not "enter" into dissonance.

Wondering if you are the perfect couple (you and your partner)? Then you should proceed with the next test.

In order to pass the Test: "Are you an ideal couple", prepare a piece of paper and a pen. Write down the points shown next to the selected answers and add them up. At the end you will find an answer, which depends on the amount of points you have earned. Good luck

1. When your beloved tells you something, do you think at this moment about something that is not related to the topic of conversation?

a) quite often (0 points);
b) you have repeatedly caught yourself doing this "activity", but in any case you try to focus on the words of your beloved man (1 point);
v) no, you always listen carefully to the person (2 points).

2. Have you noticed that your partner deliberately does not tell you about the problems that gravitate him?

a) yes, but very rarely (1 point);
b) you did not notice anything like that behind him (0 points);
v) no, you are always frank with each other - you have no secrets (2 points).

3. The occurrence of misunderstandings between lovers is not uncommon. Do you sometimes feel the need to sort things out with your partner?

a) no, you were not overwhelmed by such a feeling (2 points);
b) sometimes you are ready to do it (1 point);
v) if this happens, it often ends in a quarrel (0 points).

4. If the need arises, how do you ask your partner an intimate question?

a) you prepare the mail first (1 point);
b) you will think carefully before asking such a question, because you are not sure that he will understand you (0 points);
v) such conversations do not put you in an awkward position - you can easily discuss with your beloved everything that is interesting to both of you (2 points).

5. When you tell your lover about your problems, do you think he gets irritated?

a) no, because he is always actively involved in your destiny - he seeks to help you (2 points);
b) possible (1 point);
v) You know that your problems are not of interest to your partner, so you do not share them with him (0 points).

6. Does any of you happen to make a responsible decision without first asking your other half for advice?

a) you always discuss all important issues together, after which you make a joint decision (2 points);
b) such moments are very rare (0 points);
v) before making a decision, you always consult, although each may remain unconvinced (1 point).

7. How would you describe true love in your own words?

a) this state, being in which, the lovers enjoy the arising (2 points);
b) the state of love implies that one will “give” himself, and the other will “use” him (0 points);
v) this is a complete “dissolution” in a partner (1 point).

8. Think and answer: what could have happened if Romeo and Juliet had not died?

a) they would live happily until their hearts stopped beating (2 points);
b) parents of lovers would curse them (0 points);
v) family enmity would end over time (1 point).

9. Do your zodiac signs belong to the same group (Water, Fire, Earth, Air)?

a) yes (2 points):
b) no (1 point).

10. Do you always spend your holidays together?

a) always - if necessary, you and your partner will adjust and take a vacation on the date that coincides with the partner's vacation (2 points);
b) if the time is the same, then yes (1 point);
v) no - you prefer to spend your vacation alone (0 points).

11. Do you and your partner discuss what happened during the day?

a) yes (2 points);
b) sometimes (1 point);
v) no (0 points).

12. Do you and your partner always deliver on your promises to each other?

a) you do not always succeed in delivering what you promised (1 point);
b) yes (2 points);
v) he does not always succeed in keeping his promises (0 points).

So, let's summarize:

19-24 points- you and your partner have a complete understanding: none of you feel lonely and do not feel superfluous. You know for sure that your partner will not judge, will always support and understand you. Surely, you are pleased to know that your beloved man is genuinely interested in you and your life, and besides, he understands you perfectly. This means that your couple can confidently set an example for others: you and your beloved are an ideal couple.

6-18 points- often you do not discuss your problems with your partner, but not because you do not trust him, but, perhaps, are afraid of being misunderstood.

Advice: in order for your relationship to become more harmonious, you should try to pay more attention to your partner and not be afraid to share intimate with him. Lovers will always understand each other.

0-5 points- everything suggests that you either do not make efforts for the harmonious development of relations, or you are not really made for each other (you are not compatible), which means that your couple cannot be called ideal.

Advice: if you do not love your partner and do not see yourself with him in the future, it is better to end the relationship. And if you need this person and want to live life with him, then you should make every effort - take an interest in the life of your beloved, spend more free time with him, often have a heart-to-heart talk.

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Test game for two lovers

Want to test your feelings? Take our test

Game rules and conditions - test

The lovers answer the questions in turn. If the answer is yes, then you can move on to the next question, and if negative, you skip. If you are unable to answer either "yes" or "no", then you miss the move twice. The game ends the moment one of the players answers all the questions.

To pass the test more honestly, answer on a separate sheet of paper without showing each other the answers. Have one of you read the questions aloud, mentioning their numbers as well. Agree how much time is allotted for the answer, for example, 30 seconds.

You can play in pairs, but in this case the girl and the boy must find a compromise answer.

Questions:

1. Do you prefer to trust him (her) with only small troubles? (yes, no) 2. Are lovers always a little crazy? (yes, no) 3. If you did not like a gift from a friend (girlfriend), tell me about it? (yes, no) 4. The secret to your couple's stability is strong love? (yes, no) 5. If a stranger meets you in a crowd, will he know that you are in love? (yes, no) 6. Are you the center of each other's interests? (yes, no) 7. Is it best to make love in bed? (yes, no) 8. Have most of your friend's friends become your friends? (yes, no) 9. Are you able to appreciate the irony and humor of your boyfriend (girlfriend)? (yes, no) 10. Do you go for small lies from time to time to avoid unnecessary conflicts? (yes, no) 11. Do you heed the advice of a friend (girlfriend) when buying things, clothes? (yes, no) 12. Are you able to appreciate the little sacrifices of your friend? (yes, no) 13. Do you think that going on vacation separately means to emphasize your independence? (yes, no) 14. Do you think that love alone is enough for happiness? (yes, no) 15. For a woman, the hearth is the throne from which she rules the world. Is it so? (yes, no) 16. The main thing in life is mutual understanding. Do you agree? (yes, no) 17. Do you lose interest in your partner immediately after intercourse? (yes, no) 18. Have you ever done things with your partner that you would have judged yourself if they touched you? (yes, no) 19. The life of a couple is a constant search for agreement, and not defending their own righteousness. What do you think? (yes, no) 20. If your partner is criticized behind your back, will you stand up for him? (yes, no) 21. Do you admit the thought that your partner is in a relationship with friends you don't know? (yes, no) 22. Is your beloved (favorite) part of yourself? (Not really)

Let's summarize:

1. You finished the game at the same time and all your answers matched. Your pair matches the classic models - Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde. It looks like you won the top prize in the love lottery. But your happiness and harmony can be the envy of you.

2. At the finish you are separated by one or two points. You certainly love each other, but your views on love are different. Your love will know its ups and downs. And some problems can be a test for a relationship. In general, life will live up to the African proverb: love is like rain, and rare drops can stir up a river.

3. The difference at the finish line is from three to five points. It seems that you do not have any special illusions of a sentimental plan. But in general, you are satisfied with the relationship, although the feeling of "the seventh heaven is gone." Anyway, if you do decide to break up, it will happen without drama.

4. The difference is more than five points. Conflicts are inevitable, and therefore it is best not to drive them inside. Most likely, any of your disputes turns into a mutual demonstration of strength and a form of self-affirmation. But do not forget that each of you has a right to relaxation. Tip: Bury the hatchet and pause your relationship. This manner of communication is also part of the relationship within the couple.

Test "How well does your couple know each other"

What do you know about your girlfriend? What does your girlfriend know about you? With the help of our test, you will find out a frightening or, on the contrary, reassuringly accurate answer to these two questions.

This test is not only a great way to find out what you really know about each other, but also a great excuse to get to know each other better!

Even if you and your partner raised three children together (by the way, whose children are these?), It is not a fact that you know each other's habits well. Without this knowledge, relationships will never be as productive and happy as possible, says Dr. John Gottman, author of The Seven Principles That Make Marriages Work. From this book, we borrowed the test that we recommend all couples to pass.

How the test works

You will need five sheets of paper and two pencils. Okay, from one sheet - it is superfluous - make paper boat... And pencils can be replaced with pens or, what the hell is not joking, with felt-tip pens. You will take the test one at a time. One asks a question aloud, both silently write down the answer, not peeping at each other's papers. For example, you ask a girl, "What am I most afraid of?" She writes down her own answer: "Giant spiders with tentacles and light music." In the meantime, you write down your correct version: "Your mother." And so you report on all twenty-five questions. Then turn the papers over and set them aside.

Take the next two pieces of paper and follow the same procedure, but with the girl as the defendant. She asks: "What am I most afraid of?" You silently write down: "Your mother." The girl silently writes: "My mother." And so on for all questions.

When you have finished interviewing each other, turn over the pieces of paper and check the results (but first, of course, be horrified at the answers). Count the number of exact matches. Accurate in meaning, not in the form of a statement. For example, if you answered “badminton” to the question about your hobby, and the girl said “ridiculous playing with a net, rackets and such funny balls in skirts,” it is still a coincidence. It counts. For each correct answer - 1 point.

Questions

1. My favorite dessert
2. What is my shoe size?
3. What am I most afraid of?
4. How old is my mom?
5. What is my blood type?
6. What turns me on about sex?
7. Name two of my closest friends
8. Do I have a hobby? Which?
9. What will I get out of the fire first, besides you, documents and pets?
10. My favorite movie
11. My worst childhood memory
12. What time of day do I like to have sex the most?
13. How do I prefer to spend my evenings?
14. How do I want to be buried?
15. A dish I can't live without
16. What gift would I like the most?
17. What kind of food do I hate?
18. My favorite band
19. What coffee do I prefer?
20. In what circle did I study as a child?
21. What kind of literary genre do I like?
22. What do I want to do before I die?
23. My favorite weather?
24. Continue the phrase "You hate when I ..."
25. Do I have allergies?

results

How many points did you score?
0-4
You are very far from each other

How often do you communicate? Perhaps it is worth breaking away from watching TV shows together and paying attention to each other. Although, with all due respect to Dr. Gottman, what could bring you closer than watching the show together? Anyway, what else do you need from a relationship?

5-11
Greetings, strong middlings!

You know just enough about each other to sleep well and not embarrass yourself at a family dinner, confusing the girl's mother with her cousin. You certainly cannot be called strangers. But you still have an amazing, full of discoveries, magical way of getting to know each other ahead of you. Walk carefully.

12-17
Your relationship is enviable!

And surely your friends are doing this, once again watching your girlfriend serve you creme brulee, although you have not even had time to say “cream”. But in this kingdom of mutual understanding and harmony there is a subtle point: you need to monitor the protection of your personal space. In addition, you can periodically surprise your partner by throwing aside the pan of crème brulee and demanding the Napoleon cake.

18+
You are very, well, very, close

A similar degree of intimacy occurs in people who have lived together for more than a dozen years. Maybe you will stop shocking the nursing home and combine legal marriage with your permanent grandmother? Obviously, you have every chance of happy life to the grave.

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6 questions with which the experienced family psychologist Elena Anatolyevna Ilyina begins the session.

For 7 years of working with couples, I realized what questions should be asked at the first meeting. It immediately becomes clear to me and clients how strong, healthy this relationship is and what needs to be worked on.

Answer the questions "yes", "yes, but I would like more" and "no". Ideally, both partners write down the answers and compare them - with this exercise I start working with almost every pair.

Couple test

1. Do you feel that your partner respects you?

The partner listens to your opinion, asks what do you want? Are you really together, on an equal footing, make joint decisions?

2. Do you get positive emotions from your partner?

Do you have enough praise and compliments from your partner? Do you get enough affection, tenderness, care?

3. Is there an intimacy between you (including sex) that satisfies you?

Intimacy is not only a sexual act, it is an emotional background between two people:

• feeling that I am desired when passing by a partner
• touching
• views
• kissing
• messages during the day: I love, I want, I miss, you are the most

4. Is there mutual help, mutual support in these relationships?

Will your partner understand and support if you have difficulties? At work, with parents, children, with health, with a girlfriend (boyfriend)?

5. Did you agree on the money?

Did you split the budget or just don't pay attention to it (both are comfortable)? Or you constantly quarrel over finances:

• because someone is not working
• does not earn enough
• spends a lot
• does not want to keep a budget and save money
• does not invest in purchases that both need

6. Do you and your partner have common interests?

Interests should not overlap one hundred percent. In a strong relationship, there are one or more things to do together “on high”:

• watching movies and discussing the plot or actors
• walk in a park or mall
• gossip about acquaintances or passers-by
• discover new countries or wallow on the sea

What to do with responses

If you answered “yes” to all the questions in the test for a couple, everything is fine. Make sure your partner is comfortable with everything too.

At least one “no” or an uncertain “yes” is a reason to start working on a relationship. Talk to your partner, compare the answers. If you can't talk and you can't hear each other, trust a specialist. Family psychologist“Builds bridges”, translates what you say to your partner (and vice versa). In my practice, this solves all problems in every second pair.

The more “no” in the test results for two, the less positive connects you with a partner. If all the answers are “no,” wonder why you ended up in this relationship? How did you feel when you met? Where did it go?

This test for two is the first step. You realized the problem, tried to formulate it. Then there are three options:

1. Postpone solving the problem until later
2. Try to decide on your own, talk
3. Seek help from a specialist

Each has its own advantages and disadvantages. But if there is something good in your relationship, don't wait for it to fade away or drown in fights. Better make an appointment with a family therapist.

What do you think - are you a perfect couple? This psychological test on the compatibility of a pair for two will help not only you to understand whether you know each other well, but also to him to understand his feelings!

This compatibility test is surprisingly simple. It is divided into two parts - you answer the questions of the first part, the questions of the second - your beloved. So let's get started! For each question you need to choose ONLY ONE answer - "a", "b" or "c".

You first!

1. What professional photograph of yourself would you order him as a gift?

a) where you dance with eroticism in a seductive outfit;

b) a portrait in the classical style;

c) where you look like a model from the cover of a fashionable glossy magazine - charming and incredibly sexy!

2. Where would you like to go with your loved one on a romantic trip?

a) of course, to Thailand!

b) to Paris - the city where love blooms!

c) to Venice.

3. Under what lighting would you prefer to give him love:

a) in the sensual glow of candles;

b) in the dark;

c) in the soft and mysterious light of a lamp with a red shade.

4. Your style of dress can be called:

a) MEGAsexual!

b) elegant and refined and very feminine;

c) glamorous and fashionable.

5. When he invites you to a bar, you most often order:

a) exotic cocktails;

b) red wine;

c) champagne.

6. Ideally, you would like to see yourself in character:

a) sex is a symbol;

b) a sophisticated feminine secular lady;

c) a very cute, touching and romantic heroine from a romantic fairy tale film - after all, this is how you ideally imagine your life.

Did you answer the questions? Well done, but that's not all! 🙂 Which letter prevails in your answers - "a", "b", maybe "c"?

If "a": your almost supernatural sex appeal makes you almost supernaturally attractive to individuals of the opposite sex. Think: do they really only want sex from you? Maybe you shouldn't present yourself solely as an easily accessible erotic dish? Maybe you are a delicacy, but so far only for the body - but not for the soul, this test for your compatibility with the opposite sex considers.

If "b" prevails: you certainly have impeccable taste; you are a refined person who loves elegance in everything - and relationships with men are no exception. However, there is a certain amount of arrogance in your sophistication, which can scare men away and create problems in your personal life. Just remember that angels in the flesh do not exist among both men and women - that is, you, including, are not the owner of a halo with wings. In general, keep it simple - and love of the opposite sex will reach out to you!

If most of the answers are "in": how difficult it is. Difficult - and neglected. You are so sentimental that you are trying to build relationships solely from subtle matters - which are too subtle for men, and therefore quickly torn. You have invented the perfect love for yourself, but there is no such thing. Less of all these ahs-sighs, hints and self-digging - at least in the presence of a man you like, and you will surely spark interest in him!

The next compatibility test, or rather, its second part, is for HIM! Call him to the monitor - are you ready, sir? Then let's get started. As an answer to each of the following six questions, choose one of the proposed options under the letter "a", "b" or "c", and then calculate which letter prevails among the ones you have chosen and read the verdict! 🙂

1. Which of the photos of your beloved would you like to get?

a) where is she water skiing in a bright revealing swimsuit, or on the beach in a translucent sundress, worn right on her naked body! (MMM!)

b) where she sits astride a motorcycle wearing a baseball cap and frayed jeans;

c) her elegant portrait in an evening dress.

2. Where would you like to spend a week or two of your vacation with her?

a) at the ski base;

b) on a deserted island;

c) in some aristocratic fashionable resort.

3. Under what lighting would you prefer having sex with her?

a) in the romantic light of the moon;

c) in the dim light of a night lamp.

4. You dress ...

a) extravagant;

b) athletic. And convenient!

c) in a classic style.

5. Your favorite drink of the following is ...

a) real red wine from French cellars;

b) tequila;

6. What type of woman is most attractive to you?

a) charming and unpredictable;

b) a selfish bitch;

c) a very feminine, self-confident beauty.

Calculated which letter prevails in your answers?

If this is "a": you are an adventurer in a life in which you prefer an active position. Do you like to be in the thick of things, where there must be fun and entertainment. Your character is the character of Casanova - a real connoisseur of women, you probably have a lot of them too! However, you have a chance to live a lot interesting years on the one hand, if this woman is like you - energetic, uninhibited, in love with experiments and life!

If it's "b": do you like "bad girls"? However, this is not your type - such love constantly engages you in various dubious enterprises, because you are very reckless in life, and therefore you constantly make problems for yourself - these are the results that this psychological test gave. You need a relationship with a pragmatic and sane life partner, who would channel your appetite for risk in a more peaceful and creative direction.

If this is "v": hello, dear Hippolytus from the film "The Irony of Fate, or Enjoy Your Bath!" You look terribly like the guy who just took this psychological test for two - exactly "terrible". This guy is just as AWESOME as you are, without even the most harmless frivolity and even the smallest cockroaches in his head. However, as soon as this guy falls in love like a fool with a girl with them, all his terrible correctness will disappear somewhere, and a new and more interesting life will come to replace it.

AND NOW - THE MOST INTERESTING! 🙂

Do you remember which letter prevails in the answers of each of you? Look for the score of your couple in the table of coincidence of interests, that is, look for the score at which your interests intersect. How did the compatibility test score you two? The higher your score, the more successful you are!

If your score is too low, don't be discouraged! This is just a psychological test. In this case, this paired test compatibility can only mean that you complement each other - like two halves of one whole! Keep your love and take care of your relationship like the apple of your eye. And accept my most sincere congratulations and be happy!

Especially for the women's magazine

For each answer "a" give yourself 5 points, for the answer "b" - 0 points. It is desirable that the man and woman answer the questions independently of each other.

1. In your opinion, spouses should rest together?

a) Yes; b) No.

2. The purpose of marriage - children and their upbringing?

a) Yes; b) No.

3. Children should be taught to be independent as early as possible?

a) Yes; b) No.

4. Is it true that it is not necessary to tell each other about everything?

a) Yes; b) No.

5. Should children always obey their parents?

a) Yes; b) No.

6. Was there peace and harmony in your parents' family?

a) Yes; b) No.

7. Do you share the opinion that after marriage, spouses should not communicate with old acquaintances of the opposite sex?

a) Yes; b) No.

8. Do you like discos, parties, meeting friends?

a) Yes; b) No.

9. Should parents interfere as little as possible in the affairs of grown-up children?

a) Yes; b) No.

10. Understanding your partner at a glance is extremely important for you?

a) Yes; b) No.

11. In your opinion, children with young nails must understand how hard it is to get money?

a) Yes; b) No.

12. Can a husband and wife have “separate” acquaintances?

a) Yes; b) No.

13. Should parents be an ideal, a model for children?

a) Yes; b) No.

14. The main thing in marriage is material well-being?

a) Yes; b) No.

15. Do you have a good relationship with your mother (question for a man); with your father (a question for a girl)?

a) Yes; b) No.

16. Should children be brought up in severity?

a) Yes; b) No.

Sum up the scores and read the conclusions

If the difference between you and your partner is 25 points or less... Your union is likely to be successful. At least all the prerequisites for this are there. We hope you will be able to reveal new qualities in each other, getting closer and closer day after day.

The difference is 30-55 points... You may get into trouble because of some differences of opinion. But, as you know, serious relationship are impossible without compromise. If you learn to give in, calmly listen to someone else's opinion, your relationship can be quite prosperous. But the concessions must be reasonable.

Difference of 60 points or more- you probably have different ideas about life and family. You both have a lot to sacrifice. Love is not only about sighing on a bench and walking in the moonlight. Try to be more tolerant of each other.