The course of the meeting

I. Collection organization. Topics message, goal setting.

II. Main part.

What is a happy family, consonant family?

This is a family where everyone lives in harmony. Each is old and small - it feels love and support for all other family members, is experiencing a sense of security, it is not shy to openly show their feelings, to make wishes and confident that he will understand it.

People closest to the child are his parents. And for parents, children are the meaning and joy of all life.

"The parent heart is in kids", "the children are not in a burden, but in joy" - this is said in wise folk proverbs. The mother of the kid and feeds, and move, and sticks, and regret, and teach. And if the child fell ill, then he will cure, it turns out. "The child is crying, and the mother has a heart hurts," there is no closer friend than the mother-in-law, "people notice.

Dad is also the closest and expensive child man! When he is at home, for children a real holiday! With dad, you can have time to spend time and learn a lot! And not only skills and skills, but also excerpt, calm, friendly attitude towards people. "The father of his son will not teach a thin," the people say.

The oldest and respected family members are grandmothers and grandparents. They can be near or live away, but children must remember that grandparents gave life to parents, and hence them.

Children need to know that while they are small, their relatives care about them, and when they grow up and become independent, they will need to take care of their relatives. Children are always considering family albums with photos with interest, asked about people who do not know, native familiar to their children, calling uncle, aunt, nephews, cousins, brothers, etc., thus claiming: "That's what big we have a family!" Many live in other cities in other countries. Every person is interesting to learn more about his ancestors.

(Ancestors are an ancient predecessors by genus, as well as compatriots from the former generations.)

Who were they, what did they do how they lived? Maybe among them there were outstanding scholars, poets, military, musicians, builders, scrappers, teachers, doctors or upscale workers who can be proud of.

Each family has its own story, but it is closely intertwined with the history of the whole country. After all, the family is a particle of the people. Knowing the history of his family, you can learn better to know the story of your people. Your relationship with the ancestors, with relatives can be depicted in the figure. This drawing is calledthe genealogical tree. He really looks like a tree, which has a root, trunk, branches and leaves.

If children are surrounded by concern, love, the attention of their relatives, if the house is cozy, warm, clean, then such a house children love. The house can be compared with the nest in which they grow up, the forces and mind are called kids. When children grow up and scatter from under the native bed, they will create their own families in the image and likeness of the parents. Parents not only convey their children their knowledge and experience, but will help in choosing a life path.

Happy family always leads a healthy lifestyle. Here are aspects of a healthy lifestyle:

- good psychological climate in the family;

- Joint leisure, sports, physical education (tourist campaigns, ski rides, etc.), visiting theaters, museums, excursions.

Thus, a good psychological climate in the family is the basis of a healthy lifestyle.

As you know, all happy families are similar to each other, all unhappy - Each is unhappy in its own way.

Why was unhappy families in our society? There are many reasons, very much. First of all, the state system has changed in our country, economic and political relations have changed - all this could not affect the relations of parents and children. Universal values \u200b\u200bchanged - the family institution has undergone changes - a civil marriage has been widespread in society (a marriage that is not registered). Children born in such a marriage, from birth, unfortunately, are often stipulated in their rights; As a rule, such marriages are short, often fathers in such families are eliminated from the upbringing of their children.

There is such a negative phenomenon when the newborn refuses or directly in the maternity hospital, or later. It is absurd, but in fact, neither state bodies nor public opinion condemn such mothers, remain indifferent.

And how to regard the fact that adults in conversations with children use obscene expressions, brand? To the great shame of our modern civilization - it became almost the norm.

Stay, come home, stop humiliate our wonderful, beautiful Russian language! I am expressing obscene, you do not make irreparable harm to your children - you are impoverished by the emotional perception of the surrounding world, traumatize the soul of children.

And finally, unhappy those families and, accordingly, children in them, where there are drinking parents. However, one calls are not to be fed, not to use alcohol, etc. - - the case will not help. It is important that the parent itself understand the harmfulness of negative manifestations, he wanted to correct, and only then will be the opportunity to change life for the better.

Our task with you is to prevent such developments. We all want our children to please us, in old age we were supporting us.

The healthy lifestyle of the family is:

1) a healthy psychological climate in the family - friendly relations, confidence and mutual understanding, the opportunity to find help and support from loved ones;

2) concern for the health of family members, examinations from the doctor, a visit to the health resort, etc.;

3) sports, tourist hiking, hardening;

4) Balanced dietary mode in the family.

III. Final part.

1. Familiarization with psychological councils.

In conclusion, allow you to give you some tips:

• Child quietly, waking up, he should see your smile and hear a tender voice.

Do not push in the morning, do not twitch on trifles, do not buy for errors and oversight, even if they warned yesterday.

Dear Parents! I wish you good luck in building a happy family.

2. Questioning of parents.

Is your relationship with children safely?

Responding to test questions, put for each answer "yes" - 2 points, "no" - 0 points; "Sometimes" - 1 point.

1. Does your child trust you your secrets?

2. Does he consist with you in its difficult issues?

3. Do you like to be with you next?

4. Do you think your relationship with the child is prosperous?

5. To your baby often come root?

6. Are you familiar with all your baby friends who come home to you?

7. When you read, your child is interested in what you read?

8. Is that your baby leads to the house of extraneous children?

9. Does your child love all family members equally?

10. Are you discussing fairy tales with your child?

11. Do you think that in your family there is a complete understanding with children over several generations?

12. You are upset when, having left for a business trip, do not see your child for several days?

13. Your child sometimes looks with you transfer for adults, in which nothing understands anything?

14. Do you want to send your baby to grandparents on the weekend or vacation?

15. Will your child carefully go shopping for the necessary purchases?

16. Your baby gives you flowers collected in person personally?

17. Does your child be capricious when you make it take fish oil or medicines?

18. Does your kid try to imitate anyone from your family members?

19. Your baby is closed in the morning to you in bed?

20. Your child gives you gifts made by personnel?

Test results:

From 26 to 40 points.

Your family reigns complete harmony and mutual understanding between children and adults. For outsiders, such relationships are an open envy. How sad it is, get ready for the fact that those surrounding, seeing such spiritual unity, will "teach" you that you misunderstand your child! Warn the child in advance that you do not need to listen to evil people and take their bad advice to heart. Explain the baby that unkind people want to embroider you.

Work up at the kid strategy of answers. For observations of ill-wishers, for example: "You, Sasha, the mother is poorly raising!" Let the baby politely answers: "Rail your children. I have my mother. If I do something wrong, let it make me a remark, and not you. " Similar calm and confident children's responses are made by a very strong psychological impression on the unfair.

From 14 to 25 points.

Your relationship with the baby is generally prosperous. However, to achieve closer spiritual contact, you should make them more multifaceted. Embody some bold baby dreams. Suppose, attach the turntable to the roof of the country house or strengthen the turntable to the loggia - the baby will just be delighted with it.

From 1 to 16 points.

You should think about how to improve your relationship with the baby. Well-being in a relationship with the child depends only on you. The child will not be able to change anything himself if an adult pays for him too little time. In the end, take at work one day of vacation at your own expense. Spend it completely with the baby. Go to the ice cream cafe, then in the cinema, then to the toy store. Children's memory keeps memories for the happy moments of life. If you take a camera and the baby will have the opportunity to place the photo cards in your album - it is generally wonderful! Consider that the day will be paid at the highest rate - love and devotion of your baby.

(From the book I. A. Agapova, M. A. Davydova
"Comprehensive training for children to school.")

Teacher. Remember that prosperous relationships with a child depend only on you!

It also seems to me that it will be not dumpingly familiarized with Chinese proverbs and sayings about the family. As in Russians, the folk wisdom lies in them, to which it never hurts to listen.

Chinese proverbs and sayings about the family

To understand parents, grow their children.

It is easier to rule the country than family.

If the sons married, and his daughters got married, then the most important thing in life was done.

Since one son is good, the other is not necessary.

On holidays, the heart appeals to his relatives.

Brothers - hands and legs of one person.

Earth and wife are not inferior to anyone.

There are no wrong parents in the subnet.

If the family has an elder, then there is a jewel in the family.

Laws of happy family life. Fifth book. Torsunov Oleg Gennadevich

Happy family: what does it mean?

What is a happy family life - that's what you first need to understand for yourself before creating a family. I hope that you, dear reader, having studied the material of the previous ones, have already understood that the secret of a happy life is in competent work on oneself, which, ultimately, should lead a person to spiritual practice. The next step is fortunately to understand how to make spiritual progress, without spoiling his relationship with relatives.

As soon as a person begins to work on himself, his worldview and habits are rapidly changing, which leads to severe changes in life.

Undoubtedly, his relationship with loved ones changes are also rapidly changing. Working on himself competently under the guidance of an experienced mentor and following the recommendations of the Scriptures, a person gradually improves his character. It is logical to assume that in relationships with relatives it should bring a positive result on the way to happiness. So it is: thanks to the correct self-education, family happiness is continuously increasing.

However, life experience shows that most often a person, starting to engage in self-improvement, on the contrary, spoils its relations with relatives. What is the reason for this paradox? In most part, people are engaged in self-improvement, guided by no spiritual science, and what they want. As a result of such a "spiritual practice", they begin to be very proud of themselves and their "spiritual" achievements and at the same time despise their relatives who live, not seeking changes in themselves. At the same time, these newly minted "saints" and "mediums" begin to fume and scold everything that does not correspond to their worldview. The ancient religious traditions and the progressive cultural foundations of society are criticized.

Vedes believe that the family of society are the basis for human harmonious development. In most cases, it is properly constructed family life that ensures those who seek to excellence, reliable protection of their moral growth and spiritual progress. Of course, there are such rare souls, which, reaching a certain level of spiritual perfection, are reversed from the world and, having completed this step, rise to the next stage of progress. Therefore, it is not surprising that in all spiritual traditions there are monasteries, where they live ascetically died from the world.

However, a person who relatively recently began to engage in self-improvement, is very difficult to realize the criterion that would indicate how he has already reached the level of renunciation. Most often, newcomers, engaged in self-improvement, begin to consider themselves unfinished in a few months of practical practice. Some of them begins to imagine themselves with the mentor of all their own without the exception of relatives, including parents.

Burnt by his knowledge, these "Five minutes saints" boldly ruffle their family and social connections. How does this usually end? In the fact that in a few months of "detached life," they marry again and most often, going away from self-improvement classes, go down to their former sinful life.

In order for such incidents to work on themselves, a person needs to understand how competently, under the persistent leadership of the Holy People and Scriptures, should be engaged in self-improvement in family life. Only by taking into service the scientific method of self-improvement, proven by the practice of hundreds of thousands of people, it is possible to obtain a guarantee that the promotion of happiness and progress will be resistant and unshakable.

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Greetings to you dear reader. Today we consider such a topic as a happy family. Probably every man and every woman wants to have a happy family, to be part of this very happy family. Of course, if they want and are ready to create this family.

I also have a family, in a common blog on which you are just our wife, and not in vain we write about family relationships, because we ourselves want to be happy and not just want, and we are happy and want to share Our little secrets with everyone.

Before writing further, I want to note that the desire to be a happy family is not enough. It is necessary to work on it. Need to be laid out 100%. Of course, there are happy families who all originally develop smoothly, they all are well obtained as if by itself. There are many factors playing a role, but they also work to be happy. Just it is on the machine and does not oppress the spouse nor the spouse.

Whatever happened in the family, in any case, you can become a happy family, you can start with a blank sheet. But in order to do this, you need to make efforts to both spouses and everything will work out. I first advise you to stead a couple of articles about the psychology of women and men, it will better understand each other: ,.

Now let's look at a few aspects that combines all happy families, it will be interesting not only to those who only want to create your family or change, but who already have their own family and everything is good with them, God forbid you happiness 😀

By the way, every family is happy in its own way, just like every family is unhappy in their own way. Therefore, nowhere and you will never find an accurate recipe, how to become a happy family. All things are in you yourself, how do you feel about each other, how to communicate what you do and the like. Below you will see the foundation, the fact that it combines all happy families, and the conclusions you must do.

Love in the family

It may seem banal, but love is based Happy relationship. After all, love and tied you together. In general, love is a separate and huge topic, and very important. If you love each other, then everything will turn out. Always remind yourself that you love your family. It is important. And you need to understand what the members of your family love you.

Be patient when the husband does not notice a new haircut, or the wife does not want to look with you hockey, or the baby broke something, and maybe the parent is not allowed to walk outside. Love is care for each other. A happy family cares and understands each other in everything.

You need to understand, love - either she is, or it is not. I do not like to talk at all, but if there are conflicts in the family, think well about it (think very well, but do not make hasty conclusions).

Communication with each other

A happy family is constant communication. I believe that this is a very important aspect. But I mean communication is not superficial, such as a discussion of household problems, viewed film, news from work and so on. Communication should be deep and high quality.

It is necessary to talk not only a lot, but also qualitatively. Moreover, if you communicate, and at this time the spouse is preparing lunch, and you are viewing the news, then this is not that. Even if you just sit with each other alone and you constantly distract something, like calls, then it is also not that. You need to communicate deeply and essentially, with understanding, with trust. You can discuss not only problems, there are a lot to talk.

Communication in the family

Many say, they say no time, you need to do something, then. This is all "exciphes" find time, it is possible to really solve many problems. Even communication will bring parents and children in this way. Using deep and high-quality communication will understand understanding, confidence in the family.

Respect each other, listen not to interrupting, explain calmly, they say so, don't keep anything inside, do not hide, smile, joking and so on. In the end, communication becomes pleasant and emotional tensions are unloaded with such communication. Even after a hard working day, it becomes easy and pleasant.

Talk about everything, not only about problems. Communication to turn into a very good family time.

Appreciate each other

A happy family always appreciates each other. There is a constant feeling that you need each other, this is a very important thing in the family. All family members should understand that they are appreciated, love and respected. Do not forget to talk to each other "Thank you." In happy families, it becomes commonplace. Simple words of gratitude make family stronger and happier.

Kisses and hugs also play a huge role in the family. Especially children should understand that their parents love them and can protect them at any per minute. Immediately I remember how my little son, a few months from the family, sometimes at night in the crib I was crying, and approaching me or a spouse, having heard our voice, I posed again. So children understand that parents are near and defended them, then the feeling of anxiety passes with a child and he falls asleep again.

Everyone in the family should understand that you appreciate each other, love and defend.

Certify a new one

When the family knows something new together, there is even more rapprochement. The question arises, and what to know? What to learn?

Music family

Everything is simple, learn to skate together or skiing, learn to dance or draw. Even learn new languages \u200b\u200bwith children. Thus, you spend more time together, more communicate more and at the same time it is very interesting. After all, skating is very interesting and fun)))

Even if someone in the family already knows something or knows how, let them teach everyone. And the kids are very interested to teach parents, explain and tell them what they do not know. All this strengthens family relationships.

Have fun and laugh together

This follows mostly from the previous one. But not only. There are so many things you can do together: watch a movie, play bowling, play board games, tell each other interesting funny stories.

It is said that laughter prolongs life, and thus the happy family becomes even stronger and happier.

Dinner together

Of course, it cannot be forced, but it is desirable that the whole family for dinner gathered together, at one table. At the same time, no TV, tablet, computer and so on! It is important. For dinner, the family discusses some issues, share their impressions about how the day or week passed.

Do surprises to each other

A happy family always wants to please each other. One option is to make a surprise. And I do not mean to go to the store and buy something expensive. This is also possible, and not necessarily expensive))). You can just take and make something nice to each other, which will not cost almost anything.

Surprise parents

For example, children draw cards to moms or dads, then give - nice very and parents and children. Adults, too, can so, well, for example: the wife wanted to be more shelves in the closet, while the crossbind of hangers is not needed. I took, removed this crossbar, cut off the shelves from the chipboard, mounted. The spouse came, and I open the cabinet to her and say, they say how many places it became.

It's nice not only a spouse, but I became. So you need not just to do gifts, but to do surprises. It is fun and nice.

Select time for yourself

Happy family is not only to be together all the time. Each family member must have their own hobbies. And you need to do it not with your family. Well, for example, the spouse needs to read a good novel. Or the spouse needs to go fishing. Unfortunately, many wives fishing is associated at all with fish.

Need to respect and understand each other. Everyone in the family is keen on something and it also needs to find time and stay alone. It is very important to be alone with yourself, it needs to be understood.

Family tradition

Very good when a happy family has its own tradition. For example, a year to ride a favorite place at the shore of the lake and fry kebabs. At the same time, it is good to rest, play interesting games, go fishing with family, buy and so on.

family tradition

Of course it is not necessary, but this is necessary. Family tradition also brings together a family, makes her happy. In addition, the family tradition is an excellent reason to collect friends and relatives together. The family is not only a spouse with his wife and children, also their parents and uncle with aunts, and grandparents and so on. Communication with relatives is useful.

Traveling together

Happy family always travels together. This is not only a good time to transmitting. This is more. After all, you together, you will learn something new, you relax together, communicate and rejoice together. See and visit new places, experience emotions - very brings together a family.

Rest with family in a tent while traveling

Traveling can be not only big, as for example, go to the sea or abroad. You can more often make small travels, for example, ride in neighboring cities by car, or attend interesting places in your area. In my opinion, even a visit for the first time a zoo is also a small journey.

It is desirable to take the rule to travel together.

On this I think everything, now you know what is the difference between a happy family from not happy, use it and good to everyone. Leave comments, share new information.

Happy family: basic rules of a happy family Updated: September 11, 2017 by the author: Subbotin Paul

A happy family is the warm place where you can always find comfort and peace, love and understanding, where you always want to return and for which you can always count on. However, the family boat, falling on the reefs of misunderstandings, inverted values \u200b\u200band disappointments, is not always able to keep the course on the lighthouse of happiness.

What principles lie at the heart of a happy family?

A happy family. Harmony of two principals

In different cultures there is their vision of the essence of a man and a woman. Slavs, a man is a husband, warrior, owner, chapter and defender of the family, and a woman - Flood (Goddess of world harmony), hostess, keeper of a homemade hearth, family soul. In oriental thinking, the spouses are compared with the sky and earth, the sun and moon, light and darkness, they are described as two opposite beginners of Yin and Yang.

Yang is an awakening-movement, purposefulness, courage, generosity, responsibility, caring; Yin - softness, sensuality, care, modesty, pliability.

Only if each floor retains its innermost essence, performs exactly distributed roles, a harmonious equilibrium and development comes for both; Family happiness becomes possible, a happy family is formed.

A happy family. Children

The birth of a child is a new stage in the formation and development of a family, impetus to her spiritual growth. Couple seems to be evolving into a new status - the status of parents. For she, new areas of awareness of the surrounding world are opening.

According to the ancient beliefs after childbirth, labor memory wakes up - the wisdom of her mother, grandmothers, great-grandmothers ... A new understanding of life and new creative forces appear after the birth of the child.

A happy family. Communication of generations

Generations were, there are and will be in a family biography. We are growing and becoming happy when you do not lose touch with your roots - our own. Therefore, without good relations between generations, you will not build your own happiness and happy family.

The expression "family bonds" has a very capacious sense, because in its basis - clean and honest relationships, the atmosphere of sincere love and respect for each other, established during the generations of tradition and lifestyle, willingness at any time come to the rescue, a delicate feeling of kinship.

Happiness becomes complete when we know our pedigree, we give a place in our soul to all family members, support good relations with generations.

A happy family. Real values

"I am a modern man. Not a Hange. But I'm tired of the lack of values \u200b\u200bin the modern world. Sex and money became symbols of success. I want my child to open an album, and I decided and decided that he had such a family after 20 years. Let him decide that this is a cool goal in life - to create a real family. "

Member of the project "Ordinary Family"

Family values \u200b\u200band traditions are absorbed by childhood. They are transmitted by generations and carry the centuries-old wisdom of ancestors, are the basis of culture, a landmark in the life of everyone.

Such traditional values \u200b\u200bas love for their family, respect for the elders, respect for old age, mutual assistance, bring up decency. However, today they are dissected with modern priorities.

Nowadays, in pursuit of money and success, for prestige and material values, in the daily routine affairs, it is important not to forget the real values, among which the family.